That is a great post .Jenn but their are not a lot of people that see these situatiions and see this happening so therefore, they do not understand, they do not care if a fetus or a child is suffering or their mother is gone, too many pro-lifer's feel that it is quantity not quality of life, they feel their is a miracle pill or a miracle surgery, well, news flash, .Not .Often .Enough!
The man above is not always there! Work in neo-natal, hold a child or baby that you know that will not live long, especially when you knew before birth that this was the way it was going to be and then you say pro-choice are selfish when the family walks away and is not with the baby anymore, come on, I have seen this too many times, when the fetus could be aborted instead of left to suffer, I was told twice that if I did not abort that if my fetuses would have made it full term that they would have never had made it(once kicked in the stomach at 5&1/2 months preg. And another time when an iud was in the fetus' head a long time ago) yes, I had to make decisions and to this day I feel I made the right one's.
I could not live with the thought that I lived knowing that my mother died for me, even though I realize that that the man above possibly gave his life for us.
Look at my situation I went on using a condom and b/c pill and used the pill as I was supposed to use them and still got pregnant and miscarried after that, I gave up having kids because I and my new dr felt that their was too much danger after being kicked and then I had two wonderful grown adults now. Pro-choice are not selfish and we are very understanding the way I see it, it is too bad that pro-life do not see it that way but you can lead a horse to water but you cannot make them drink and we are all different that is what makes the world go round.