Hi I just keep on thinking about you and
your pregnecy do you have any sisters mom
or daughters to help you out? Who is
going to take you to the hospital when the
time comes or your husband do you have a
supportive husband? All these ques keep
going through my mind sorry if I sound
nosy
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 03-04-06 13:09pm
I have 3 children, 2 boys and one girl--if
I need them all I have to do is call them,
and they would be on the bus or plane
immediately. My mom passed away when I
was 29. My sister --her life is totally
booked. My husband is very supportive,
he is here always.
I will be fine---thanks for asking.
I am 36 weeks today--27 days to go
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hotty
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Nov 2005 Posts: 261 Location: texas
Hi Hows It Going Posted: 03-06-06 12:47pm
Hi fat- family, how are you feeling
today? How much longer do you have
left? I forgot, :)
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tigresacanela24
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2005 Posts: 5261 Location: Treat your children well, eventually they'll choose your nursing home.
Posted: 03-06-06 12:53pm
Better get to a hospital. I can't
imagine going that far w/o serious
complications since you have no uterus.
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Bridget
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Posted: 03-06-06 18:45pm
fatfamily02
wrote:
i am 36 weeks today--27 days
to go
aren't twins not supposed to go past 38
weeks? Or is that only if you have a
uterus? I thought even if you haven't
gone into labor by 38 weeks that they
don't let you go past that. Something
about it not being good for the babies.
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hotty
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Nov 2005 Posts: 261 Location: texas
Hello Posted: 03-07-06 13:35pm
Fat- family where are you, how come your
not replying to us, we are all here to
help you. Are you doing ok,.
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 03-07-06 13:44pm
With scheduled c/section they take off 2
weeks for every extra child. But my
situation might be completly different.
So 38 weeks. I am now 36.3 weeks. I
have new pics on my site. They look
smaller , but I had just been laying down
all day, and it gets flatter when I am not
standing up. But the baby's appear to
have dropped in the pics on either
side--top of the page.
i will have my baby's when .God says it is
time to go. I am waiting on .Him. I
tried it the way everyone expected me
to--and all I got was slammed doors. So
I will love, trust, and have faith in
.God. .He is in control anyway--no
matter what we think we need to do. All
I got were dead ends when I tried to do it
my way. So here I wait.
I love you guys dont worry---i will be
fine, and I will update when I have
something to tell ya'all.
.God bless us all
joanna
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 03-07-06 14:58pm
Without bringing your god into the
situation many drs that have said that
you are not pregnant and you probably will
not have labor w/o uterus and you said
something like one fetus is attached to
your spine how can you call it an
abdominal pregnancy. Do you have any
recent pictures? What did the x-ray show
that you asked for and you got one?
April fools day is coming upon us pretty
fast which is the day that you have been
saying that you are due. Please do not
take me wrong, I am not judging you it is
just that like when you put a puzzle
together and there are a few pieces
missing and again I am not trying to say
you are missing a couple of bricks or
anything like that.
May I ask, and you do not have to answer,
why are you disabled?
I care about people and what happens to
them if I did not I would not be a nurse
and a social service worker.
You said that you had had a back injury
prior don't you feel that a lot of your
pain could be from scar tissue plus the
injury plus by now arthritis has started
to set in. You say you are a diabetic
that could cause problemss in your feet
and legs(pain and numbness). Have you
thought any about what that other dr told
you, it might be part of the situation.
With you drinking diet sodas and you know
that they have aspartame in them which
causes pain and other problems.
May I ask what is your next game plan?
Are you just going into the hospital on
the 1st and tell them that you need a
c-section or will you husband just lay you
on the kichen table and cut you open.
Don't you realize that your body could be
filing up with toxins, making you sick and
giving you more pain.
Joann as a person that cares(meaning me)
it is time to start doing something for
yourself, if you don't care about yourself
others will stop caring for you.
Peace!
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 03-07-06 15:30pm
I did it the way everyone wanted me to---i
sought out medical help but all I got was
closed doors. There has only been 2
times this has happened to me--and both
time all I got was closed doors after .God
explained to me--.He was in charge. And
.He was gonna do it for me--.His way,
.His time not mine. And no man would
interfere or intervene. (1)when my kids
were stolen by their very abusive,
sexually molesting father, (2)and now with
these baby's. When all I get are closed
doors I know it is time to, "be still and
know I am .God." to patiently wait with
faith and .He would see me thru it.
I know it is hard to understand coming
from the world side of it, but I live in
the spiritual side of it, and it does not
make sense to our flesh--it only makes
sense thru the eyes of the spirit.
Here is a guote explaining what happened
to me at my last job---why I am
disabled.
Quote:
i went from
totally strong(40 years old) muscles all
over my body---to not even being able to
walk well. I installed satellite dishes
for dish network. I carried fiberglass
ladders around all day, climbed roofs, and
loved it more than any job I ever had.
Just wanted them to fix me so I could
return to my job. They never even tried
to fix me. I now have, no strength in my
body, muscle atrophy, from the nerves cut
off. My legs freeze up during walking,
hurts to sit, arms have loss of strength
too. I could barely stand for 10 minutes
at a time, from the weakness. If I use
any of the strength in my body is causes
what I call a seizure in my spinal cord
and affects my whole body with shaking and
weakness. Spinal cord headaches follow.
I also have a spot in my spinal cord that
looks like it is ripped. They call
spinal cord atrophy. This is what I call
spinal injury with cord involved. I also
crushed 4 discs, and one of them is
completely disappeared now. It has been
a horrible trip. Thank .God, my god has
been helping me thru this pregnancy, no
way could I have made it. Seems things
are getting much better. I now stand
much of the time, back and forth to
sitting temporarily. For it hurts to
sit, or lay, but not the way it did. And
I got teary just tellin you it has gotten
better. I am so grateful. My .God is
so good. I appreciate .Him so much.
Praise my .God forever.
and this all happened over night--not from
the diabeties. Im sure over the last 5
years it might have made things
worse---but I dont think so.
Last edited by fatfamily02 on 03-07-06 15:34pm; edited 1 time in total
Lets see some 36.3 weeks belly
pictures....... So we can compare.
You must be so huge by now.... Lets see!
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tigresacanela24
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2005 Posts: 5261 Location: Treat your children well, eventually they'll choose your nursing home.
Posted: 03-07-06 16:11pm
She said she posted new pics...Anyone look
yet?
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 03-07-06 16:15pm
I asked 1st michelle(lol, only kidding).
I understand what pain is, I live with it
24/7 I have a lot of medical conditions
such as ddd, djd, fibromyalgia and other
pain and neuro problems, the only way I
get through each day is to keep moving and
to be myself and to try not to let it get
me down my dr wants me to get a pain pump,
I have tried the scs (stim) trial and it
did not help without my medication, yoga
and the gym I would be in hell but ihave
people watcing over me.
I do wish you luck joann and as I said
before I am not against you and I do hope
you get the help you need!
Sure hope we get those pictures soon!
Peace!
