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Q: Cutters Who Want to Stop
asked by: w0rldd0minat0r on March 3rd, 2006
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I used to cut...
Just as long u dont get out of hand it is a gd way of releasing ur feelings.



What u need to know about cutting is that you do it for two reasons

it creats impulses that make u feel better
it is a way of displaying the fact that u are upset and that u are feeling alone and noone else can see ur feelings and it helps to show it in this way

if u do want to give up then here are some tips from when I did


1) instead of cutting use ice on wherever u normally cut and hold it there it
can hurt more then cutting and it will have the same affect as cutting but it wont scar u.

2) think about the consequences of cutting if ever u do give up I have been close to relapsing back into cutting and u just have to say to urself thats what u might feel like doing but u have stopped for a long time and u'll feel better later

3) when I said about showing people about ur feelings by cutting it may be helpful to write a diary with ur feelings just quick stuff off the top of ur head it doesnt have to be poems but sometimes they may help

send me a personal message if u do decide to give up and ill give u support as u go. Or if u just need someone to relay your feelings too im going thru the same things as u

i have been through this and was also bad at one stage in my life good luck with trying to give up and if u dont want to then its not so bad

take care
gavin, 16
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want2benormal23
replied on April 2nd, 2009
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I would like to stop =(
Hi gavin I read your coping tips. I am going to try the ice one the next time I relapse. I was doing pretty bad last night and told a lot of dark deep secret's on here. As it needs to be told if not to help me but for maybe others to read and possibly will let others know its not just them. I hope i make sense I am just in a very dark sad and alone place right now =( And I am fighting as much as I can against the urge to cut and pound on myself and I am finally talking to others that understand what goes through our heads sometimes. But if you would like to chat sometime I would really like that. My name is Stevy, I am 23 live in canada. My post from last night is called "why does it hurt" if you are interested in knowing a little of what I am going through and maybe we can talk about that and as well talk about you and maybe we can help each other out =) Hope to hear from you =)
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