I think it is very unlikely that it is the other guys and if you keep stressing yourself out like this you are going to have more to worry about than some paranoid doubts about whose child it is. (sorry bit harsh :-). As you said yourself the scans line up with your lmp which means its your partners baby.
Just relax and enjoy what little time you have left with just you and your partner till your precious baby turns up and peace and quiet becomes a thing of the past.
I'm 33wks pg and get very paranoid and worried about stupid things aswell so it must be a pregnancy thing hopefully we will be normal again eventually. :-)
all the best with the rest of your pregnancy!

The only best way to know is a dna test, but you have to have this done at the hospital when your baby is born...If you are that unsure you need to have one done..It would not be fair to pick just one of them as the father...Good luck and best wishes

Just my suggesstion and opinion. It would be the right thing to do for the baby-to-be- if he/she had health situations later on in life to know the fathers past medical situation along with the family's medical situations as this way it is easier to treat the child or the adult at the time with his along with you family medical background. Plus if you turn it around, I would want to know who my real father is, wouldn't you?
You have to do what is the right situation for this baby-to-be because if he/she found out later that it was different think of the feelings that he or she could have against you if you were wrong. But it is your choice.

Ok thanks I know what you are all saying but what do you think ?????

Do you think you can get preg's a day b4 your lmp ???
Everyone is telling me no even my midwife and doctor ?????

What do you all think ????

And the scan is saying my dates are all right ?????

Hope to hear back soon thanks :-(

Only dna can tell

Hey there

so what your saying is you can get pregant 1 day before your lmp???
And if so wouldnt my due date be before the 29th of april ?

Please someone write back :-(

It is possible to get pregnant during you period. Conception can occur at any time really. I feel awful for you. I will not tell you what to do in this situation, because I wouldn't know what to do. Did you talk to your doctor about this? Remember, everything you share with your doctor is completely confidential, perhaps he/she can shed a little light on the matter.

If you were officially, "broken up" with your partner when you were intimate with the other, would he understand the circumstance? Although it would be heartbreaking, would he consider it to be cheating? What about this other guy, what type of person is he? Would he want to know if he had a child brought into this world?

You have a lot on your plate of thoughts right now. My advice to you, is talk to your doctor. The dates seem to be in you favor, but unfortunately anything can happen. Let us know what you decide.

Thanks so so much for your reply.
I have spoken to my doctor and another doctor and about 5 midwifes.
They all say the same thing it cant be the other guys.
But in saying that you have just said that you can get preg's when they said you cant one day before your lmp.
My parnter would have a flying fit if he found out that I slept with someone els.
The other guy does know im preg's and has said if its his he wants to so everything he can do.
I dont want it to be his !!!!!! Im so so upset :-(
im just hopeing that its my partners.

When I went for my scan on the 29th of aug last year they said I was 5weeks and 6 days and there wasnt a heart beat which if I had gotten pregs on the 22nd of july with the other guy dont you think there would have been a heartbeat ???
Also when I went for a 24weeks scan they said going by the scan and the size of your baby your due date would be the 5th of may another week.

Someone told me that if I got preg's on the 22nd of july I would be due way before then ??????????

Im so so scared :-(

someone help

What do you want us to say??
You made a mistake and sleep with another man (when you and your partner had seperated) and now your pregnant.
If you wont listen to your doctor and 5 midwives then you aren't going to listen to any of us. I think you know the best option is to tell your partner what is going on and get a dna test done when the baby is born. It sounds hard but you made that mistake and now its time to face up to the consequences.
Good luck

Well thanks sarah 1978 !

Dont you think I already know this !!!!!!!

I cant tell my parnter ok !!!!!!!!!

Thanks for all your help everyone imjust going to wait and see what my wee girl looks like when shes born .

And if 5 midwifes have said it cant be the other guys and 2 different doctors have then im hopeing they are all right .

I dont want to tell my parnter because deep down I think its his and I dont want to hurt him 4 no reason

thanks everyone

I didn't mean to sound as harsh as I did - sorry!.
But atleast you have made a decision about what you are going to do, and can hopefully rest a bit easier and look after yourself till the baby is born.