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Q: Please Help Me Im 16, (part 2!)
asked by: kim_dory on March 2nd, 2006
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I am not considering have an abortion bcoz im being bullied! 4 f*** sacke guys!!!! Its bcoz I have no1 by myside to support me nd I dont think im ready 2 bring up a baby at 16! On my own!

If u cant help me please dont post back

kim x-x-x
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~*~Jillian~*~
replied on March 2nd, 2006
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Hey im not trying to be rude but you posted in abortion debate..Where pro-life and pro-choice are...So I would advise you to go to the abortion forum...One click up from this one..There is where you ask opinions on getting abortions ...And you probably wouldnt get bashed there... :wink:
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Moo
replied on March 2nd, 2006
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You didn't explain that, it was asked why you were thinking of abortion when you do not believe in it. You didn't state explicitly your reasons for considering abortion.

How have your parents reacted to the pregnancy?
How has the father reacted? (i know you said he was a p***k on the other thread but he does need to grow up, either way) are you still together?
Have you contacted any pregnancy centres/helplines? If you can find netural ones (i can help if you're in my area of the world, uk) then you'll be able to assess all of your options either way.
You do need to think about this seriously, neither having an abortion or having a baby will be easy.
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kim_dory
replied on March 2nd, 2006
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Yes the father knows and he is deniying to everyone that its no his! So I told him were to stuff it coz if his tht ashamed off me I can do without him. My mum knows and is very annoyed at me and is ignoring me but that beczo she cant hav children anymore nd is taking it out on me. I tlk to my school nurse and counciller but not a family doctor

luv kim xxxx
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lil_blaze2004
replied on March 2nd, 2006
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Why did you not think about this earlier on in the pregnancy? Waiting this long is not the smartest thing to do. 15 weeks is pretty far along. Please think about what you want to do very carefully. Think of all your options too. If it's you best friends that are "bullying" you, then they are not your best friends. Theywould support you if they were your friends. I wuold honestly tell your mom you really need her right now and sit down and talk to her and ask for her help.
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sandyallen
replied on March 3rd, 2006
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Hi .Kim!! You really need to be in the abortion support forum, which like jullian said is one up from here but beings you are here, I can say a few things. #1 it is your choice and your choice only. #2 as lil_blaze2004 said that you should talk to your mom about this. #3 you still could have an abortion if you choose to do so but yo do need to act quickly and you might think of getting counseling afterwards and true, it does not sound like your friends and your boyfriend are really there for you. #4 if you do choose to continue on with the pregnancy you will have to grow up fast and you will loose a lot of good times in your days. #5 you can adopt but that can be scary at tines too because you never know where your child will end up. My suggestion is to sit down and disscuss it with your mom ass I am sure by now she is not as quite in shock as she was and maybe you might be able to work something out with her.
The very best to youy
keep us informed if you need to talk to anyone we(some of us) are here for you!
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jimmyjackers
replied on March 3rd, 2006
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kim_dory wrote:
yes the father knows and he is deniying to everyone that its no his! So I told him were to stuff it coz if his tht ashamed off me I can do without him. My mum knows and is very annoyed at me and is ignoring me but that beczo she cant hav children anymore nd is taking it out on me. I tlk to my school nurse and counciller but not a family doctor

luv kim xxxx


never take action if you cannot be sure it is the right move, only take action when you are sure it is right.

Are you sure you want to kill your son or daughter?

The fact that you are questioning the morality of this act is a clear indication not to go ahead.

God tells us not to kill one another and least of all the young and defenceless.
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jimmyjackers
replied on March 3rd, 2006
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bahahahahahaha123 wrote:
jimmyjackers wrote:
god tells us not to kill one another and least of all the young and defenceless.


incorrect as usual, fundie boy...


3) murdering children

kill sons of sinners

make ready to slaughter ...Blah, blah, blah...Children



incorrect
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sandyallen
replied on March 4th, 2006
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Yes jimmyjackers, look at the vietnam war young children were killing our men, those so called children had guns bigger then they were and I am not saying this for an excuse for abortion, their wer a lot of times that are men lost their lives because they could not kill children.
You keep saying that abortion is about killing children, babies, they are not children or babies until birth(once they are outside of the mother then they are babies or infants or toddlers, then children then, etc., but you go ahead and believe what you want because I realize that you are not very knowldgeable.
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Tylanas
replied on March 4th, 2006
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sandyallen wrote:
yes jimmyjackers, look at the vietnam war young children were killing our men, those so called children had guns bigger then they were and I am not saying this for an excuse for abortion, their wer a lot of times that are men lost their lives because they could not kill children.

You keep saying that abortion is about killing children, babies, they are not children or babies until birth(once they are outside of the mother then they are babies or infants or toddlers, then children then, etc., but you go ahead and believe what you want because I realize that you are not very knowldgeable.


ain't that true, though. Even my dad spoke of it, when he cme back from desert storm. Same thing happened then, too. And, true that, jimminy isn't very knowledgeable!
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jimmyjackers
replied on March 4th, 2006
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bahahahahahaha123 wrote:
jimmyjackers wrote:
bahahahahahaha123 wrote:
jimmyjackers wrote:
god tells us not to kill one another and least of all the young and defenceless.


incorrect as usual, fundie boy...




3) murdering children

kill sons of sinners

make ready to slaughter ...Blah, blah, blah...Children



incorrect


sorry, fundie boy... It is printed in your bible word for word. Sucks to be a hypocrite christian, huh?


incorrect.

The new testament supersedes the old testament.
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jimmyjackers
replied on March 4th, 2006
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bahahahahaha123 wrote:
jimmyjackers wrote:
the new testament supersedes the old testament.


only if you believe that god was wrong the first time and had to correct his mistake!


no mistake was ever made.
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jimmyjackers
replied on March 4th, 2006
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bahahahahaha123 wrote:
jimmyjackers wrote:
no mistake was ever made.


then you wouldn't have a new testimate, would you? Guess you are reading the wrong book, fundie.


the new testament is the fulfilment of the old testament.
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jimmyjackers
replied on March 5th, 2006
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bahahahahaha123 wrote:
jimmyjackers wrote:
the new testament is the fulfilment of the old testament.


no, it is christians pathetic attempt at changing the original writtings to update their moral views.


wrong yet again.

It is not just christians that believe in it.
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Tylanas
replied on March 5th, 2006
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jimmyjackers wrote:
bahahahahaha123 wrote:
jimmyjackers wrote:
the new testament is the fulfilment of the old testament.


no, it is christians pathetic attempt at changing the original writtings to update their moral views.


wrong yet again.

It is not just christians that believe in it.


who else besides the christians believes in the new testament? Oh that's right...

No one. The muslims do mention jesus and mary, but he's not the saviour. The jews know jesus existed, but he was a prophet, not the saviour.
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Essex_girl
replied on March 5th, 2006
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Re: Please Help Me Im 16, (part 2!)
kim_dory wrote:
i am not considering have an abortion bcoz im being bullied! 4 f*** sacke guys!!!! Its bcoz I have no1 by myside to support me nd I dont think im ready 2 bring up a baby at 16! On my own!


If u cant help me please dont post back

kim x-x-x


these friends bullying you is it an ongoing thing ??

A baby is a life, but its your life aswell its your descison.

Whos the father maybe he should help, my friend went through this so if you need to talk pm me.

Love emma xxx
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jimmyjackers
replied on March 5th, 2006
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eiri wrote:
jimmyjackers wrote:
bahahahahaha123 wrote:
jimmyjackers wrote:
the new testament is the fulfilment of the old testament.


no, it is christians pathetic attempt at changing the original writtings to update their moral views.


wrong yet again.

It is not just christians that believe in it.


who else besides the christians believes in the new testament? Oh that's right...


No one. The muslims do mention jesus and mary, but he's not the saviour. The jews know jesus existed, but he was a prophet, not the saviour.


wrong again, you pro-abortionist are really lacking education.
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Tylanas
replied on March 5th, 2006
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jimmyjackers wrote:
eiri wrote:
jimmyjackers wrote:
bahahahahaha123 wrote:
jimmyjackers wrote:
the new testament is the fulfilment of the old testament.


no, it is christians pathetic attempt at changing the original writtings to update their moral views.


wrong yet again.

It is not just christians that believe in it.


who else besides the christians believes in the new testament? Oh that's right...



No one. The muslims do mention jesus and mary, but he's not the saviour. The jews know jesus existed, but he was a prophet, not the saviour.


wrong again, you pro-abortionist are really lacking education.


excuse me? How am I wrong? Proof! Jesus .I.S mentioned in the koran. So is mary. Jesus .I.S recognised by the jews as a prophet. I know both of these things as facts. Prove me wrong; but i've read excerpts of the koran. Don't ask how my teacher got them and how he got them translated; because from what i've heard the muslims are very tight about the koran. But i've read several pages worth, pages that mention jesus, mary, and the muslim view on fighting those who are against their religion.
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Tylanas
replied on March 5th, 2006
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bahahahahaha123 wrote:
jimmyjackers wrote:
it is not just christians that believe in it.


you really need to give up that drinking during services.

Only christians believe jesus was the messiah. fool.


seriously... That's why they're called "christ-ians" and not jews!
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jimmyjackers
replied on March 5th, 2006
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Not just christians believe in the new testament -fact!
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