Hi look ahead:
i can imagine that situation is very stressful!! I'm not a guy, so I don't really know how it feels personally, but I bet it really sucks. Its not the end of the world though!! I know that sometimes when my husband gets done a little earlier than he would like to, he seems to get down on himself.... But I just love him and kiss him and tell him its ok and that it was still good for me. In your case, I would ask myself a couple questions...Do you really like her? From the sounds of it, she's not treating you very well. If a girl will break up with someone just because he comes a little too early sometimes.... I question her intentions. She should want to help you work through this problem. Sex is a lot harder than you think it is, and the more you do it the more experienced you will become. It takes practice!! So don't worry that if now, just after two months, its not workin for you. You'll get better! Just work through it. Try to stay calm and relaxed during sex and don't think about coming to early. Don't be afraid to stop! If you do find yourself almost ready, make sure and pull out and just give yourself a second to calm down before going at it again. My husband probably has to pull out 3, 4, 5 times before we finally finish so that he go a little longer. Even try thinking about something else totally not sex related (baseball, what you want to eat for dinner, what movie you want to see, anything!!) if she continues to be like she is right now, threatening to break up, etc. Just because of sex... Don't take that! (especially if you question how much you like her) its not very cool! Good luck... Let me know if you have any more questions! I hope this helps.... It might suck right now, but it will get better with a little time and practice. I promise. Just try to stop worrying about it. Worry is absolutely good for nothing... :)
