Broken Hearted Forum - I Fell For a Fake

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Q: I Fell For a Fake

asked by: JustANobody on March 2nd, 2006

New User

And don't tell me its just a teenage phase/thing...Because I will always be heart broken...& he was my first love...Don't tell me I dont know what love is....I'm sick & tired of hearing that....He told me he loved me, he told me he cared about me, he told me he would never leave, he told me he would do anything for me....But then, something happened that had nothing to do with me, & he blames me for what happened, so he never talked to me, avoided me all together....He even talked crap about me, he said he would never do that..........Now he acts like everythings fine, & we once in a while talk...But, I just don't understand?...What did I ever do wrong? Why does he hate me? Did he ever love me? Should I try to be friends with him again? Is he just jealous & thats why hes talking crap? What does she have that I dont?....Will I ever feel okay again?????

Replies(2)

lil_bina_bean

replied on March 2nd, 2006

New User

If something happened to him and had nothing to do with you.. He is in denial/resentment an all sorts of things and he is just looking for someone to blame.. What you should do is take up other activities and try not to think of him.. And try not to call him or talk to him too much.. He needs space to reflect on his situation.. Its hard... I know ive been through it.. But try and after a while he should come around once he has a chance to cool off and see how he has treated you. You are sad now but you may end up angry too.. And when he comes back to talk to you.. Dont show the anger or he wont feel like opening up to you again. You arent the one he needs time.. He does. Good luck!

Melissa_20

replied on March 2nd, 2006

Especially eHealthy

I'm sorry that happened to you.Some guys are just jerks.In my opinion I would not talk to him anymore if he treated you like that.Talking to him just shows it was ok for him to do what he did and if you let him he may do it again.He lied to you and hurt you greatly,you deserve better!

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