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Q: New Here,but Really In Need of Advice.....
asked by: sHaY on December 30th, 2003
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I just joined yesterday because I started to get very worried about being pregnant.I go to school in alabama, but im from ohio(where I am right now) and that is where my bf is from too, so I would really like to know what is going on so I know the next steps to take.
The last time I had my period was at the end of september. I have a history of missing periods for like a month. Like I missed one in may.....But then I got it in june. Well I haven't had a period since september. A week after I had my period I came to see my bf and that was the first time we had unprotected sex(which I know is wrong)...But we had a lot of it. A week after my period was due I went to get a test done. I know I took it at night...And they had to force me to pee. But the doc swore to me that if it was neg then I wasnt preg at all. So I just stopped thinking about it. Well obviously its dec now and about to be jan in just a day or so... And still no period. I took a test last night...It showed a line to say it worked, but I thought I messed it up cuz in the other window was just a blob of pink! So I took one when I woke up this morning...It was negative. There r so many people here that have had the same thing happen to them and they ended up pregnant. But I dont know what to do! Its negative so many times...So that means no right?I know this is not a good thing, but ive been drinking alot.... And smoking illegal things(i think u know what I mean). Do u think that is effecting the recent testing?Ive just been feeling kinda sick...And having major a** heartburn(weird for someone who ever burps in her life) someone pleaze help me!!!!!!!!By the way, im 18!
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Darling
replied on December 30th, 2003
Active User, very eHealthy
You should really cut down on the drinking and smoking illegal substances until you get a blood test done to determine whether or not you are in fact pregnant. Go to the doc's and request a blood test, not urine and it will give you an accurate answer
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smith8500
replied on December 30th, 2003
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She's Right
The only sure way is to go to a doc. And as she said, please stop the usage until you know if you are preggo!
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Ansleyt2004
replied on December 31st, 2003
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Just because the hpt's are saying no does not mean no ... I for one know from experience I have missed my period once before n that was in july I didnt have one in july had one in aug. N sept. But then started missing them......... But like you I didnt have my period since september which was the last time I had one then missed oct/nov/dec.... Went to the doc dec 17th n found out I was preg. But all my hpt's were negative also so I thought ok I guess that sumthing is seriously wrong with me n thought but I couldnt be preg bc all the test I took came up neg..... So best thing for you to do prolly would be to quit that drinking and smoking drugs and get to the doc n find out!!!! Cuz I didnt know and I had drank a very few times before I found out bc I thought I wasnt since the test said no but went to the doc and they said otherwise!! Best of luck to you!!!! I hope that everything turns out the way you want it to!!! Gl!
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ansley

also the drinking n smoking wont affect the test

and you may not of gotten preg. When u think you might have if by chance you are.... Bc when I went to the dr she said she didnt think that I was as far as by the date of lmp and that I could be only a few weeks and could of gotten preg any of that time I wasnt having a period bc she said just bc you dont have a period doesnt mean your not ovulating so maybe u werent before when u thought might of gotten preg. But then got preg later on or u could of gotten preg. When u think u may have again if by chance you are preg.

Hope this has helped you please get to the dr and stop drinkin n smokin that just in case at least til you find out if you are or not.... I understand completely about doing it bc the test say neg. Bc I did (drink a time or two) but now u know its definitly a possibility and u should at least stop til u know for sure!! Good luck girl best wishes
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