Hi everyone i`m hoping some of you can
help me with a situation! I have liked a
guy for a little while now however I don`t
see him that often, in fact in a few
months now! A year or so ago we kissed on
a couple of occassions when out but no
relationship became of it which didn`t
bother me at the time.
Since then I was in a relationship and
ended it and now hes popped into my mind
again. My sister was out ans met him and
she said he was asking for me and hoped to
see me soon. I didn`t want to read too
much into that though. I have really been
hoping to see him when out but I haven`t
so far. My problem is since I don`t see
him much I feel that next time I do see
him i`m going to have to make my move. I
was brought up that girls don`t ask boys
out but I figure that if I don`t see him
much i`m going to have to.
I`m quite shy when it comes to these types
of situations and I have no idea how to
approach the subject. If he says no then
c`est la vie but what do I say to him, is
it too forward for a girl to ask a guy
out? How will I know if he has a
girlfriend?
Help!
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 03-02-06 11:02am
Does he,when you see him,show interest in
you like you do in him? If he does I
don't think you have much to worry
about.Just ask him if he would like to
hang out with you,and if he says yes hang
out.When you do,ask him if he has a girl
or not,if he says yes just say "thats
cool" but most likely if he says yes to
chilling then he don't have a gf.Just be
cool!
Oh,and there is nothing wrong with a girl
asking a guy out,it's the millenium! : )
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pinksalter
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2005 Posts: 124
Posted: 03-02-06 20:12pm
Thanks for your advice, I kind of get a
feeling when we do meet there is a
connection and I can see him looking but I
convince myself hes just looking cos I
have a spot on my face or something like
that. But then I think to myself we have
kissed before so he must like me a bit.
The other thing is I build myself up so
much that when I do see him I just can`t
do, I can`t think of the words to say. I
guess i`ll just need to say it somehow!
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 03-03-06 10:14am
Just ask.Its not like you have to see him
all the time if he says no.And just
think,there is a great chance he will say
yes.
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amino65
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Apr 2006 Posts: 264
Thanks: 7
Thanked:3
Posted: 04-17-06 00:29am
When I asked out my now boyfriend, I first
mentioned that I really wanted to see a
movie, and playfully asked him when he was
gonna take me to see it. Sure enough, a
week later, he says "so you still wanna go
to the movies?"
you just have to give them a prod in the
right direction. Maybe he likes you, and
thinks ur not interested. Maybe he has
the same mindset as you. Just be urself,
and if he goes for it awesome, if not, no
problem, you'll find another special guy
out there. ^_^!
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hardcharger7
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Aug 2006 Posts: 7
Posted: 08-20-06 23:02pm
Just to let the girls, out there, know.
I as a guy like it when a girl asks me
out. I find it to be very flattering,
and it makes me more excited to go out
with a girl.
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Furno_Heather
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Feb 2005 Posts: 8 Location: Putnam CT
I Need Help Posted: 09-29-06 09:22am
I can't ask a guy out cause I get nerves
and afraid.
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Re: I Need Help Posted: 10-05-06 09:58am
furno_heather
wrote:
i can't ask a guy out cause
I get nerves and
afraid.
thats just something you
need to work on and work yourself up to
doing. Practice! Lol sounds strange but
it gets your confidence up.
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Laletta
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Oct 2006 Posts: 48 Location: Brooklyn
Re: How Do I Ask a Guy Out? Posted: 10-05-06 10:31am
Yeah i'm shy too.. I say go for it if
you really want to get it off your
shoulders already.. It is going to be
really akward when getting ready to ask
him, your gonna freeze up and turn ..
But you have to be strong and just pop
the question! .. And if he says yes or
no .. You asked it and it's done with in
seconds, it will be like ripping off a
band aid.. If he says no then completely
change the subject like it doesn't bother
you, if you don't know what to say be like
okay.... So what did you do today how
was your day blah blah.. Get things
better again.. Just be strong everything will be
off your shoulders once you do it
..
But you have to be strong and just pop
the question! .. And if he says yes or
no .. You asked it and it's done with in
seconds, it will be like ripping off a
band aid.. If he says no then completely
change the subject like it doesn't bother
you, if you don't know what to say be like
okay.... So what did you do today how
was your day blah blah.. Get things
better again.. Just be strong 
everything will be
off your shoulders once you do it