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Q: Painful Sex

asked by: engelrosa on March 1st, 2006

New User

When I was 17 I had sex with a man, or rather he had sex with me, I wasnt very consenting or ready for it, I was dry and when he entered my I felt a very intense pain like I had split.

I wasnt a virgin and the split was on the outside not the inside. Now when me and my partner have sex, as he is quite big I feel like I am being split and it gets very very sore.

I have realised that just outside your vagina where the skin begins, just underneath the entrance, I have a little scar and that keeps breaking everyime my partner and I make love.

I dont know if anything can be done about this I just wanted some help please.

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lsipes

replied on March 1st, 2006

Experienced User

It might be normal or it might not... But the same thing happens to me when I have sex. Which I don't, but when I did, it happened. Lol
it's just a little tear in the flesh down there, right? It heals up pretty quickly. How frequently do you and your partner have sex?

fatfamily02

replied on March 1st, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

When I was sown up after my second child. At first it felt like they went a stitch too tight --like a pulling pressure on the stitches. Within a few days it felt like it had actually ripped out the last stitch. And now 22 years later I still get pain from the underneath of my vagina. It only happens when we make love too long or when I am in a position to cause him to rub me down there. So if it did split chances are it will always be tender. I just try and avoid putting too much pressure at the underneath ---sometimes even bleeds a little. Still feels like baby skin---real sensitive.

luksyx6

replied on March 2nd, 2006

New User

Lots of lube might help..Make sure your not dry.

engelrosa

replied on March 2nd, 2006

New User

We have it on and off he lives away so we have it daily, sometimes twice daily for about 6 weeks, then he goes home and I get none for another 6 to 8 weeks, how the others have described it is how it feels, theres always enough lube from myself but if its from behind of he lifts my legs thats when its worse.

Thanks guys for the reply!

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