|if he is the father of the baby-to-be whether or not he wants to see the baby post birth or not he should still have to help to support him/her, otherwise he would just go around getting other girls pregnant and feeling he does not have to pay for them either. It is not right to the soon to be baby either, you can put both last names down on the birth certificate.
You have to do what is right not only ffor you but for the baby-to-be not only now but later when he/sshe starts asking questions about the dad. Society does not need another dead-beat dad around whether in the .U.S.A. Or any other country(just my opinion).
Every mother worries about being good mom's, you will be fine, no one is perfect, you will make mistakes, but you will learn from them.
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