No really I am the poster child for jerry springer. If this wasnt my life I wouldnt believe it was happening. In order to understand my problem you have to know my whole twisted situation. My boyfriend of 3 years and I broke up for a month last summer. During that time he slept with his psychotic ex and got her pregnant. He didnt find out until after we had gotten back together and I decided to stay with him through all of this as long as he agreed to a whole list of things. Everytime we talk about it he tells me how he feels like he's ruined his life and his potential and wishes it hadnt happened. Yesterday I found out I was pregnant. Im terrified to tell him and I think he'll think I did it on purpose. For the record I didnt- i'm a 19 yr old student on birth control and a baby was the last thing I saw happening in the next few years. I dont know what to do... I hate myself for making his life worse and making things even more complicated. 2 babies from 2 different girls in one year? I dont think anyone has that kind of situation for obvious reasons. Do I tell him? Do I leave (i was considering transferring to a school in california)? I feel like if I tell him he's going to hate me, but at the same time I feel like its not fair to me to have to give this baby up or not have it just because he slept with his ex. I could really use some advice....