Q: Overcoming a Safety Mechanism From Enjoying Sex
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trouble_83
on February 27th, 2006
New User
I am having real problems enjoying sex, its not new I have always had this problem but the people iv been with tend to be a one night stand or general shag partner and so I fake it and abit of fun. I know that I need to do something about it if I am to ever fully enjoy sex, there is obviously underlieing priniples which have affected why I dont particularly enjoy intercourse, there is something that stops me and freaks me out about getting to close to coming and no matter how much I want to something inside me cuts off. Theres someone I realy like at the moment and I am worried I am going to lose them if things dont change and I dont sort this out for myself for now and the future. How do you oversome a safety mechanism which was set because of something that happenned years ago, and stops you getting to close to anyone...? Help
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