Plz Need Someone to Talk to Posted: 02-26-06 15:21pm
I am male 16 called gavin. I have really
low self esteem and am feeling depressed
about things I really need someone to talk
to plz just post a message if u are
willing to talk to me regularly as I am
slipping into depression and need to talk
about my feelings thx
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inhere
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Mar 2006 Posts: 11 Location: Portugal
Posted: 03-01-06 17:30pm
Hi gavin :d
if you want , I have some free time to be
able to talk with you...***
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penelope67
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2006 Posts: 114 Location: NH
Posted: 03-02-06 12:57pm
Me too! You can talk to me anytime, I am
here pretty much every day, because I hate
my job so this is how I spend my time at
work. Haha
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dfbarnes
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Feb 2006 Posts: 18 Location: florida
Posted: 03-02-06 13:05pm
Gavin,
you may write me anytime if you'd like. I
think i've been through it all at 16!
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w0rldd0minat0r
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Feb 2006 Posts: 238
Posted: 03-02-06 15:22pm
Wow im rlly touched that you all care
maybe u could help me get back my
confidence as I lost it all when I got
depressed... My dad used to hit me then
my mum and dad got divorced then my mum
got depressed and tried to kill
herself...Then later I got depressed
because school was too hard and I started
too feel like life wasnt worth living
after all that and since that I have found
out my dad has cheated on my mum and now
has a 23 yr old daughter that we never
knew about...
Its rlly destroyed my confidence and I got
get rlly anxious around people and have
recently resorted to addictions like
smoking and weed and gambling could rlly
do with some advice for getting my head
back on track
thx very much that u all care xxxx
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~baby~g~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jul 2005 Posts: 221 Location: Ohio
Posted: 03-02-06 15:25pm
Hey gavin! :)
you can write me a msg on here anytime
you'd like! I'd love to talk to you and
try to help as much as I can!
Kayla
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w0rldd0minat0r
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Feb 2006 Posts: 238
Posted: 03-02-06 17:55pm
Im about to reply to ur topic thx for
replying
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inhere
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Mar 2006 Posts: 11 Location: Portugal
Posted: 03-02-06 19:19pm
w0rldd0minat0r
wrote:
wow im rlly touched that you
all care maybe u could help me get back my
confidence as I lost it all when I got
depressed...
Its rlly destroyed my confidence and I got
get rlly anxious around people and have
recently resorted to addictions like
smoking and weed and gambling could rlly
do with some advice for getting my head
back on track
hello again **
i'm happy that even the simple presence of
all of us makes you feel in any way a
biiiit better... :)
i think that probably confidence will
eventualy come from the outside in tiny
bits, but the real confidence, the one
that never fails when the outside reality
can't help us or deceives us
(friends,girlfriend, money, job,etc.), is
the one that will come to you eventually,
it will be a inner confidence, generated
firstly by your understanding that other
people like you, but then you will no
longer need that kind of reassurance...
I think your problems may really well
relate to this lack of trust, drugs of any
kind have been known for use for
fulfilling an empty hole inside of one's
mind/heart (each people has its hole and
finds it own band aid... My bandaid is
food and books...The first is bad, the
last not so bad :p lolo )
perhaps if you find a very true to
yourself and healthy way of filling in
your hole you won't be in need to find
artifical / outside things to end your
inner needs...
***
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w0rldd0minat0r
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Feb 2006 Posts: 238
Posted: 03-02-06 19:22pm
I replied to the other convo btw have u
seen it yt?
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w0rldd0minat0r
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Feb 2006 Posts: 238
Posted: 03-02-06 19:26pm
Im going to africa when I was really ill
and after I tried to kill myself 3 times I
spent a long time thinking about what I
was talking about in the other
conversation that I wanted to change the
world that I was born into that even tho I
didnt feel like living myself I was in the
position to give people the chance to live
because I was born into a middle class
family and I am bright so thats whats kept
me alive thats what im moving forward to
im just not sure if ill make it there (not
being dramatic) but life is feeling pretty
pointless at the moment