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Q: a Whole Lot of Stuff!
asked by: Moo on February 26th, 2006
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I read the pro-life forum but I don't reply there (being that i'm pro-choice) but I noticed that someone brought a topic from pro-choice forum to here so i'm going to do the same with a pro-life topic that kind of made me think about how people really don't seem to understand women who have abortions - it's not all about the z/e/f

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i have heard a new common excuse for the homicide of innocent children. They don't want to be baby factories. Who the heck asked them to lay down and have sex? That baby didn't ask to be put there. Then they say, "i used protection, accidents happen." god does not give us accidents. And as for protection, the only way to prevent pregnancy is to not have sex. Sex = pregnancy.



of course no-one 'forced' us to lay down and have sex (unless raped) but this doesn't mean that we should automatically accept any pregnancy that may result. Sex is not purely for procreation - if so then why is there actually only a small period within the cycle where conception can actually occur?
If people are using contraception then it's a clear indication that they don't want to be pregnant, that they don't want to have a child. Just because the world hasn't yet invented a contraception that is 100% doesn't mean that people shouldn't be able to have sex for enjoyment - 98% is pretty reliable and, if you're unlucky enough to be caught within that 2% then why should people not have the option to decide whether or not it continues?
The "baby" may well have asked not to be there - neither did the woman so why is it you believe that a non sentient being should take preference to the woman who would have to go through the pregnancy and birth?

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it kills me when they say, "if abortion wasn't legal, women would find hack doctors to do it." I have an opinion on this, harsh, but an opinion. If they are going to kill an innocent child, they have got what is coming to them. Maybe it will rid the world of people that are unwilling to take responsibility for their actions.

"inoccent" is actually redundant in your sentence but we'll ignore your emotive slight on language for the time being.
It's actually refreshing to hear such an honest view - you have no sympathy or concern for the woman and it's only the fetus where your concern lies.
"taking responsibilty" may well be done by abortion - just because you don't believe it to be so doesn't make you right. I am responisble for my actions, I am fully aware of that and I take responsibilty so equating those who abort to being unwilling to take responsibility is false.

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abortion is now used as a form of birth control. Women start having unprotected sex a week after an abortion and end up preg again. How did that happen? Then they just go on down to the clinic to get rid of their "problem". May .God have mercy on their souls.

lol and you know this how exactly? Women don't rush into sex (some may, they're in the minority) because it's dangerous to have sex within two weeks following a termination. Are you also implying that women who abort are dumb? Seems like it, obviously I know nothing about human biology or how you get pregnant, how did it happen??? (sarcasm, does that need pointing out too?)
also, by saying "they just pop down to the clinic" you really are showing how little you know about abortion, have you any idea how agonizing a decision it is? Have you any idea how much thought and soul searching goes into deciding to terminate? Obviously not. I bet you could tell me the procedure, tell me all about the fetus - that doesn't mean you understand abortion. You can list reasons but you clearly don't understand.

As for god having mercy on our souls...
This is a serious question.
The only mention of the fetus dying in the bible is in the old testement so why is the christian position on abortion different? (as opposed to jewish position, for example).
Ex 21:22-23 - the death of the fetus is not a serious crime, only if the woman dies too warrants the most serious punishments (fine for the first, death for the second).
The fetus is recognised as not being a person.
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Tylanas
replied on February 26th, 2006
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This is a wonderful post! I too took a topic from the pro-life forum and brought it here; I also took one and brought it to the pro-choice topic. This is what we should be doing if we want to discuss these things, not going onto each other's boards!!

Thumbs up, I agree with everything. And the bible excerpt is excellent.
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Moo
replied on February 26th, 2006
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I'm interested in what people will have to say about this. I have noticed one christian is about on the boards, i'm wondering about the bible exerpt...


Hopefully this (the whoe post) will be addressed soon!
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Moo
replied on February 26th, 2006
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I did consider putting the last bit in a separate post because I thought it might mean the rest of the post is ignored.

Anyone?? You can ignore the last bit if you want!
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lsipes
replied on February 26th, 2006
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Maybe i'm reading the verse a different way than you, but i'll quote my bible here, again..

"if men struggle with each other and strike a woman with child so that she gives birth prematurely, yet there is no injury, he shall surely be fined as the woman's husband may demand of him, and he shall pay as the judges decide. But if there is any further unjury, then you shall appoint as a penalty life for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot".

I'm taking that as saying that if the baby is born alive, though premature, and the mother is fine, then the guy pays a fine and all is gravy. But if the child or mother suffer any injury, then he has to die. I don't really understand how it supports your stance.

As for the rest of you post, I totally agree!!!
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Moo
replied on February 26th, 2006
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The interpretation i've always found (especially when relating to jewish culture) is that by her 'fruit' departing it's assumed to have died and, thus, only a fine is the punishment - the 'harm' following being the death of the woman
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sandyallen
replied on February 26th, 2006
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Moo, that is a great post, I posted one about morality and it was gone, in response to theirs. The main thing is is that I have a difficult time with is that they are more for the fetus, I do not know if this makes since or not but their are times that the fetus must go or be aborted for the mother to live on, I do not think that I could handle living later on if I knew that my mother had to die so that I could be given life and I realize that the man above died to give us life and blah, blah, blah but a mother and a fetus is a different picture in my book. Moo, we are glad to have you here. You are truly appreciated! Of course along with the others, you are appreciated too!
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jimmyjackers
replied on February 26th, 2006
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Ex 21:22-23

and if men strive together, and hurt a woman with child, so that her fruit depart, and yet no harm follow, he shall be surely fined, according as the woman's husband shall lay upon him; and he shall pay as the judges determine.

This is clearly condemning the death of her foetus.

The only reason it plays the issue down is because the phase is assuming the loss was due to an accident.
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jimmyjackers
replied on February 26th, 2006
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bahahahahahaha123 wrote:
jimmyjackers wrote:
the only reason it plays the issue down is because the phase is assuming the loss was due to an accident.


you would think your god would be more clear on abortion, instead of leaving it up to idiots like you to assume things.



there is nothing to assume, it is quite clear.

The death of the foetus is condemned.
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jimmyjackers
replied on February 26th, 2006
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bahahahahahaha123 wrote:
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the death of the foetus is condemned.

maybe you should read your bible more clearly. Your god doesn't have a problem ripping fetus' from the womb to kill when it suits.


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Moo
replied on February 27th, 2006
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jimmyjackers wrote:

this is clearly condemning the death of her foetus.
The only reason it plays the issue down is because the phase is assuming the loss was due to an accident.

the reason it's 'played down' is because the fetus is not the equal of the woman. It's a lesser 'crime' than killing a person.
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jimmyjackers
replied on February 27th, 2006
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moo wrote:
jimmyjackers wrote:

this is clearly condemning the death of her foetus.

The only reason it plays the issue down is because the phase is assuming the loss was due to an accident.

the reason it's 'played down' is because the fetus is not the equal of the woman. It's a lesser 'crime' than killing a person.


the only reason it plays the issue down is because the phase is assuming the loss was due to an accident.
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Moo
replied on February 27th, 2006
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jimmyjackers wrote:

the only reason it plays the issue down is because the phase is assuming the loss was due to an accident.

well, as it's the only text in the bible concerning the death of a fetus that's your own interpretation - there's no qualification of your claims that it's only treated lesser because it's an "accident".

Did you read the rest of the post? I'm just curious as no pro-lifer/anti-abortion people have addressed it
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Moo
replied on February 27th, 2006
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Http://search.Americanbible.Org/bible/sear ch.Cfm?Book=exod&chapter=21&verse= &version=cev

just thought i'd point out the american bible societies version of the text concerning the death of the fetus. Irt indictaes that the interpretation is that the death of the fetus is secondary and by no means equal to the death of the woman (it doesn't fall within the ambit of "life for a life" and, again, no reference that this is because of an 'accident'). The reference to the 'harm' that follows means the death of the woman. The death of the fetus is assumed in 21:22 where a fine is imposseable
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