Help! Embarassing 1st Time Anal Sex Posted: 02-25-06 02:09am
This may sound really disgusting and is
very embarrassing but please help I need
some opinions. I recently had anal sex
with a guy for the 1st time and I read
that before you have anal sex its a good
idea to 'clear your bowels', I didnt do
this and when he pulled out...Uhhh..Faeces
followed. I dont just mean there was a
little bit of poo on his penis im talking
about a lot and on his shirt and on
me....It was extremely embarrassing and I
was wondering if this is normal sometimes
and if it has happened to anyone else...I
cant stop thinking about it I feel
disgusting and dirty, its haunting me,
please help. :oops:
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MissShortie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 146
Posted: 02-25-06 02:19am
Yes, I would say its normal, because
everytime after I do it, I have the urge
to poo, and if there is somethin in there
to poo, I will, but I like to plan it out
to where I have gone "number 2" the day
before, so its nice and cleaned out; I
find if I poo the same day I have anal its
too sore, but depends on your bowel
movements and stuff. Just be sure in the
future to be cleaned out before you do
somethin like that, and even if im cleaned
out when I do it, there still is a smell,
and probably some on his penis. What do
you expect though?! Its ment to be an
exit not entrance...And I dont do it
often, it is good 'period sex' though,
haha.
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dannyboygirl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Feb 2006 Posts: 192 Location: ,
Aye Grrrl Posted: 02-25-06 03:03am
:lol: what's good me and my fiance do it
now because im tryin to wait for our
wedding night 6 months from now before we
start doing it vaginally again. We want
to stay celibate to see if the
relationship is based on sex but n e ways.
Buy some of that ky lube the good caca
not the cheap caca and have a lot of 4
play alot til your extremely horny.. This
works for me then have him play with your
clit with one hand and your boobs too.
Then as hes about to enter you sideways
spooning position I tell him to pinch my
nipples to take the pain off that area.
Now once you get past the 1st 2 inches its
cool your poopin reflexes stop but he must
stay in at least 2 inches or you'll feel
like you have to poop again. Oh yeah you
have to be 100% relaxed play a rain cd or
something and be careful because now on my
periods I get cramps in my ass no lie. So
I hope I helped ya a little and good luck
next time. :shock:
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annonymous
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Feb 2006 Posts: 2
Posted: 02-25-06 05:27am
Hey thanx guys definitely made me feel a
lot better about it, dont feel like such a
freak anymore haha just hope he doesnt
too. Thanx for the advice il definitely
remember it for next time thanx for your
help.
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dannyboygirl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Feb 2006 Posts: 192 Location: ,
Your Welcome Posted: 02-25-06 05:36am
Just make sure your relaxed and take your
time don't rush.Be safe iight...Gone
