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annonymous

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Help! Embarassing 1st Time Anal Sex
Posted: 02-25-06 02:09am

This may sound really disgusting and is very embarrassing but please help I need some opinions. I recently had anal sex with a guy for the 1st time and I read that before you have anal sex its a good idea to 'clear your bowels', I didnt do this and when he pulled out...Uhhh..Faeces followed. I dont just mean there was a little bit of poo on his penis im talking about a lot and on his shirt and on me....It was extremely embarrassing and I was wondering if this is normal sometimes and if it has happened to anyone else...I cant stop thinking about it I feel disgusting and dirty, its haunting me, please help. :oops:
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MissShortie

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Joined: 22 May 2005
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Posted: 02-25-06 02:19am

Yes, I would say its normal, because everytime after I do it, I have the urge to poo, and if there is somethin in there to poo, I will, but I like to plan it out to where I have gone "number 2" the day before, so its nice and cleaned out; I find if I poo the same day I have anal its too sore, but depends on your bowel movements and stuff. Just be sure in the future to be cleaned out before you do somethin like that, and even if im cleaned out when I do it, there still is a smell, and probably some on his penis. What do you expect though?! Its ment to be an exit not entrance...And I dont do it often, it is good 'period sex' though, haha.
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dannyboygirl

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Aye Grrrl
Posted: 02-25-06 03:03am

:lol: what's good me and my fiance do it now because im tryin to wait for our wedding night 6 months from now before we start doing it vaginally again. We want to stay celibate to see if the relationship is based on sex but n e ways. Buy some of that ky lube the good caca not the cheap caca and have a lot of 4 play alot til your extremely horny.. This works for me then have him play with your clit with one hand and your boobs too. Then as hes about to enter you sideways spooning position I tell him to pinch my nipples to take the pain off that area. Now once you get past the 1st 2 inches its cool your poopin reflexes stop but he must stay in at least 2 inches or you'll feel like you have to poop again. Oh yeah you have to be 100% relaxed play a rain cd or something and be careful because now on my periods I get cramps in my ass no lie. So I hope I helped ya a little and good luck next time. :shock:
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annonymous

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Joined: 25 Feb 2006
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Posted: 02-25-06 05:27am

Hey thanx guys definitely made me feel a lot better about it, dont feel like such a freak anymore haha just hope he doesnt too. Thanx for the advice il definitely remember it for next time thanx for your help.
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dannyboygirl

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Posted: 02-25-06 05:36am

Just make sure your relaxed and take your time don't rush.Be safe iight...Gone
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