Okay, so ive been looking up and down this site and it seems that a lot of guys have the same or at least similar issues that I do. Although this site has helped me understand that I am at least normal and not on my own with this, I still dont know for sure what to do about it. I know this isnt as good as a doctors visit, but its a start. Im going describe my problem so the details are clear.

So im 20 years old and a virgin. Most girls consider me very attractive and in the past ive never had trouble getting women to like me/want me. For most of my teen years I was not sexually active for a variety of reasons, but for the most part I was just to nervous to make moves on girls. Since ive gone to college, ive had a series of encounters that lead me to believe that I have a serious mental block regarding intercourse. I had a girlfriend last year and we never had sex. I thought it was because I was not attracted to her enough for personal reasons, but it seems now that maybe I was just unable to get a hard-on. Ive met a new girl and everything is great, except that I have been having sexual problems. I can get an erection fine when masturbating and even during foreplay, the problem is that I cant keep an erection when things turn more serious. Another thing is that I seem to only have maybe one or two good erections a night, and after that everything is semi-stiff. I also seem to be 'dripping' seminal fluids while I lose erections. This is quite embarrassing. I know most of this is probably just nerves, but I wanted to know if the 'dripping' is at all normal and if any other people on this site have found solutions.

I hope someone is willing to at least try to help. This is really embarrassing and I cant think of anyone else to talk to about this. My girlfriend knows I have some sort of problem and is okay with not having sex (for now), but I would really like to get over this.