Okay, so ive been looking up and down this
site and it seems that a lot of guys have
the same or at least similar issues that I
do. Although this site has helped me
understand that I am at least normal and
not on my own with this, I still dont know
for sure what to do about it. I know this
isnt as good as a doctors visit, but its a
start. Im going describe my problem so
the details are clear.
So im 20 years old and a virgin. Most
girls consider me very attractive and in
the past ive never had trouble getting
women to like me/want me. For most of my
teen years I was not sexually active for a
variety of reasons, but for the most part
I was just to nervous to make moves on
girls. Since ive gone to college, ive had
a series of encounters that lead me to
believe that I have a serious mental block
regarding intercourse. I had a girlfriend
last year and we never had sex. I thought
it was because I was not attracted to her
enough for personal reasons, but it seems
now that maybe I was just unable to get a
hard-on. Ive met a new girl and
everything is great, except that I have
been having sexual problems. I can get an
erection fine when masturbating and even
during foreplay, the problem is that I
cant keep an erection when things turn
more serious. Another thing is that I
seem to only have maybe one or two good
erections a night, and after that
everything is semi-stiff. I also seem to
be 'dripping' seminal fluids while I lose
erections. This is quite embarrassing. I
know most of this is probably just nerves,
but I wanted to know if the 'dripping' is
at all normal and if any other people on
this site have found solutions.
I hope someone is willing to at least try
to help. This is really embarrassing and
I cant think of anyone else to talk to
about this. My girlfriend knows I have
some sort of problem and is okay with not
having sex (for now), but I would really
like to get over this.
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Wizza
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Feb 2006 Posts: 1
Posted: 02-27-06 07:58am
Mate I get the semi with my new girl, for
some reason it will stay hard as a rock
when its foreplay but for sex i'll go for
about 10 minutes and it'll go to semi...
Now, I read somewhere that it may be
because of an unhealthy diet? Well i'm
only eating one meal a day, and snacks now
and again - so I am personally gonna try
and eat three meals a day with occasional
snacks and see how it goes.
I never had a problem with my previous
girlfriend, but my new girlfriend I am.
And my god she has the most perfect body.
I havent told her why it keeps going down,
but she has fun off the semi anyway lol.
But maybe its down to nerves for yourself?
Or as I said - maybe an unhealthy diet?
I have no idea about the sepage your
having. I know this may sound weird but
is it premature ejaculation or maybe it's
your girlfriends ejaculation?
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w0rldd0minat0r
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Feb 2006 Posts: 238
Posted: 03-02-06 15:55pm
Not about this post but I swear I am
getting more anxious about losing mine the
more I go on this! Lol
