I have seen this post a couple of times and notice no one has written anything so I figured I would.

The guy who was my first kiss was also my first love,or lust,whatever you want to call it.I was at the beach with my friend b/c there was a paddle out for one of the surfers that died at my school.Well my friend and I were tanning later in the day and there were 2 guys who kept staring at us.They decided to come over and introduce themselves and it turns out one of them was german and the other from some other place I don't remember.My friend liked the german guy but he ended up following me around! We talked some and I started to like him after a while and my friend went to the other guy.We all went to the movies the next night and we were together from then on for almost a year.He was suppose to be going back to germany the following day but called his parents and told them he was staying here a little longer b/c he met someone.It sadly did not end so well,as I wanted it to.I lost my v to him and I knew it would not last.He started acting like a jerk to me and he ended up going back to germany.We didn't talk for about a year and then he called me.A few times after we talked he appolagized for being such a jerk and now we are friends! Sorry it was so long!

Thanks for replying :) I wish my experience of my 1st love was a better one too!! The man was so horrible I cant even be bothered to write about him, lol! I did love him once tho, and he gave me the best gift of all, my 1st baby!

That sux that it did not work out for you.I wish someone else would write something,i want to read other peoples stories besides my own.My first didn't give me anything but a broken heart so you are lucky!

I met my 'first' so called love when I was 12, almost 13! I had a bf at the time and it took this guy forever to persuade me to break up with my bf and get with him. I thought he was so mean, and really wasn't my type. But, I gave him a chance anyways! We were together for about 8 mos. And I really thought I was going to be with him forever, even though I was young. When him & I broke up, I got with his best friend, just to get him back. I was only with his friend for 5 mos. I only talked to him a few times during my relationship with his friend.

Well, when his friend & I broke up I called him up crying to him. He told me 'if it's true love, it will come back to you.' I didn't think anything of it and blew what he said off. We went a whole year without talking, I thought of him every day, but just couldn't bring myself up to calling him. Finally, when I did, he didn't even have the same number, or live at the same place. I didn't have the same number or address either.

One day, my best friend called me and told me *broque* the 'first' love had called her and asked her for my number. I got so excited, and he was calling me right then, I was soooo scared to talk to him. I had just gotten out of a relationship, but I knew when I heard his voice I wanted him back, and I got him back. We was only together for 4 months that time, we argued way to much, so I broke up with him. I really don't know what I was thinking. We talked all the time still, and was still together all the time. We dated on & off for about a year and that was it. I don't even remember the last time I talked to him.

His phone is disconnected, and last I heard he was in hurricane katrina, so I don't know where he is. :( I still think about him every day, and i'm just waiting for the day we reunite. We just argued way to much, but he was still the one I loved. Ahhh, this has gotten me thinking about him.

Even though i've been in a happy relationship for over a year, I still think about him all the time. He was the love of my life for about 3 years. This is my life now, and he was my life in the past.

Wow.I was with a guy on and off like that but I was never in love with him. My first love and I officially broke up after a month but I don't count it bc we were together everyday and still had sex and all that. . .

I and my fiancee met 1st time on internet 3 years ago.He is my first love and we get along very well.Although we have to be separate for a while every year, we're still very faithful to each other.
I dont dare to say this will be my last love but I do hope it will be everlasting.I know he's very loyal.We're looking forward to graduating uni a lot then we will get married.He's the 1st guy I love with all my heart and give him my everything too.
I beleive in first love very much because my mom's 1st love works.My dad was her 1st love and has been till now :)

Hmmm my first love was the guy I had lost my virginity 2 I was 16 and we dated for 3 1/2 yrs but we broke up so many times but iloved him 2 death we fought soo much I never wanted to loose him but my senior yr of hs he was in college and lived by his college and we just started falling apart bcuz he ended up cheating on me and I confronted him at the girls house and stuff and it ended but then 9 months later we dated again but it still didnt work out cuz I couldnt forgive him for what he did to me but I loved him to death still but im finally getting over my first love ill prolly never forget bout him but im just glad imoutta the relationship cuz I 2 stressed in it but now I have the most wodnerfulest guy ever I love him so much...Although my first love ill alwase prolly love that lil bit just bcuz he was my first and that why I thynk I was so in love widt him ..... I love my man now widt all my heart were getting married in august were eloping because I want to have fun widt my wedding maybe on down the line when we have a lot more money well have a big wedding :) sorri if I kinda went on n on lol

ashlee

My first love was when I was 16 we went to high school/college together we went out for 4 months I fell pregnant then he cheated on me with my best friend and has since gone out with all of my friends from high school he is now engaged to one of my college friends (ex friend) oh what great memories lol

What I thought was my first "love" was when I was 15-19. Off and on, no fighting, just having fun were the reasons for break-ups. We lost our virginity together and will always remember one another for that reason. It's funny though...I thought he was my first love for so long. But I realized he was my first real crush once I met my true love. I guess when I met my husband I realized what love really was. I can't stop thinking about my husband...I no longer want to play....When i'm away from my hubbie, all I can think about is getting back to him. We've been together for almost 9 years now (amazing considering my past is filled with "getting sick of people" relationships that wouldn't last longer than a month). Married for a year and half now, and have been living together for 4. Since I met my dh...Since the first day...No one else has mattered. Not even my first crush! It's love when you feel more every single day! I just hope everyone can find real love...First or not!

Met my first love when I was 14 and he was 17 1/2. I lied about my age. My mother told him the truth. He was the one I lost my virginity to. We dated for 2 years, I was 16 when we broke up. We kept in contact with each other and even had flings with each other here and there. We have been in relationships with other people, at one time, he was even engaged.Neither of us ever married or had children. I am now 40 and he is 44 and after 26 years of knowing each other and never ever losing contact with each other, we have finally come together again. We are now engaged to each other. After the wedding which will be in September, we will be planning to have our first child. In the end, I realized that my first love was just that...my first true and only love.

Hi honey and welcome to ehealth...Now your story warms my heart...In the end, love won out...If you think of it, let us know when that child is born...Yours is a very special love...I married my first love...That was 50 years and 7 months ago and I love him more today than life itself...May you find what we have found...I wish you the best...

Hugs,
Caroline

i have a first lust and first love..I still think about this guy to this day, idk why he had such a spell on me but he did..i met him my freshman year of college..he was a complete jerk now that I look back on it but..for some reason I was sooo infatuated with him...he tried to take my virginity MANY times..but I just couldn't look him in the eye and tell him I loved him..so to me he wasn't the right one..but it was still fun

my first LOVE i met right AFTER my first year of college..it was actually just supposed to be a summer fling so that I could get back to school and win back the college boy in the previous paragraph haha..BUT..we got VERY serious very fast that summer and completely fell head over heels in love, I lost my virginity to him and he's my first serious relationship..our 3 year anniversary is coming up now and i'm very glad I waited

To all the respondents: Thanks for sharing your first love experiences, I liked reading them!

Well, as far as I am concerned, still no experience at all in love. And I am not surprised at all by that because I am such a weird fellow. I talk with girls but don't really like the idea of changing girlfriend every two months.

My first love gosh!

He pretty much used me up til he got bored of me than cheated on me with one of my best friends at the time.Now they're engaged.He also took both our virginity. Worst experience of my life. Also i was raped as a child so it made everything alot worse. But hey im here today & i've got a pretty amazing boyfriend. We have our ups & downs but whose to say; noones perfect.

I lost my virginity to my first love 26 years ago. I was 14 and he was going on 18. I lied about my age, my mom told him the truth (embarassing!). We stayed together for 2 years then we broke up. I was pregnant twice from him and since I was so young, my mom had me abort them. He and I have been in each other's life for the last 26years. I am now 40 and he is 44. We are both single and never married. Neither did any of us have children. We have had other relationships, but we always stay in touch and get back together. This time, we decided that we still are in love with each other after all these years and we are now in a relationship. Hopefully, in a year to two years time we will get married and have the two children that we should have had 26 years earlier.It is kind of scary. I thought that maybe me going back with him means I am desperate and washed up. You know...to old...damaged goods. But in my heart, I know that I should have been with him always. I am taking it slowly, but I feel good about the situation and I am going forward. I have always loved him and vice-verse. We have finally stopped being stubborn and realized the truth. WHAT STARTED 26 YEARS AGO NEVER ENDED...GOD DIDN'T INTEND FOR IT TO.