My girlfriend and I and thinking about
experimenting with anal sex, I was
wondering if it is any different then
vaginal sex, or if it will hurt her, any
things that have to be done prior to
insertion or anything. Basically is it
worth trying or not.
Any tips, advice will be appreciated
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rob_uk
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Posts: 34 Location: uk
Posted: 02-23-06 19:51pm
Lots of lube. It can be very tight. Go
very slowly aswell, for her sake and also
yours
:)
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trishabunny
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jul 2005 Posts: 216 Location: manitoba
a Girls Opinion Posted: 02-23-06 20:23pm
Yeah
it is actually alot different and it is
alot better in lots of ways
i think that you should just try it.
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Jennifer23
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2005 Posts: 76 Location: Texas
Posted: 02-23-06 21:22pm
Your girlfriend needs to make sure that
she is relaxed and comfortable. You may
try taking a warm bath before trying anal,
or give her a massage. Before you just
try to shove it in ... Try experimenting
a little bit with your finger. Start off
small and make sure you use lots of lube,
like rob_uk said. You also need to
figure out the best position that would
make it more comfortable for her. In the
beginning, I find that the "spooning"
position works best (which is where you
guys are laying side by side in the same
direction, you behind her). But, i've
read that the best beginning position is
with the woman on top because she'll have
more control over how much is going in ...
So it's just basically up to ya'll.
Again ... Use lots of lubrication (ky,
astroglide, wet) and pay attention to her
body, how she moves or what she says. If
she doesn't relax her muscles back there,
then it's going to probably cause some
pain. Just experiment a little bit ...
It can be a really pleasurable experience
once you get the hang of it and can become
a great part of your intimate times
together. Good luck!
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cmilah
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jan 2006 Posts: 33
Posted: 02-23-06 22:59pm
It's not as smooth and good feeling as
vaginal intercourse.
It feels a bit grainy like...Not
sandy/rough, but still pleasurable.
Just insert alot of lube in her butt and
on ur junk prior to it, and relaxing on
her part is key. Go slow int he beginning
and then you can quicken.. I prefer
vaginal intercourse much much much than
anal, its just not as fun....And you run
the risk of getting a yucky
aftermath...With poop!
