Did you miss your period since the raping??

Did you notify the local authorities that you were raped and have them do a rape kit on you to find pubic hairs or human secretions?

How old are you? Do your parents know?

Sarah

I am very sorry to hear about your situation, I do agree with the poster above, if you ar young, you need to talk to your parents and if you are older talk to your Dr. You really need to do somthing and we are here for you but you do need to talk to a responsible adult because if he feels that he can get away with it with you than he will feel that he can get away with it from others. It is not your fault!

im almost 18 and no I havent missed periods but they have been short and light, no I havent told my parents, I dont live with them I live with an aunt and uncle no I didnt report the rape and I havent had a pregnancy test done yet

You should really get a pregnancy test, and you should've went and got checked after this all and at least take a morning after pill.... That way at least this could all be avoided. Im really sorry to hear what happened though. I hope things only get better..

Hun you should really do a pregnancy test and make sure you are not pregnant. It's never too late to report it, it's just too to late to have a rape kit done or take the morning after pill. I was raped too when I was young and I didnt' report it and it has haunted me the rest of my life as I don;t know if I let him get away with it how many other people has he raped because I didn't report it. You still have time to report it hun.

Also you need to talk to your dr and/or aunt and uncle as you need to be tested for stds. Please, please get checked for stds, if you are pregnant hun, you need to make sure you are not carrying a illness you may be able to pass on to your little one.

Being pregnant aside (even though it's scary) watch out for yourself and get checked for stds

i am soo sorry to hear of your story. I will be praying for you. Keep us informed...We are here to talk to you and give you all the support we can give

Thx for all ur support and advice I am getting tested for pregnancy but idk where to go about getting tested for stds I dont have a dr yet

You can go to any clinic to be tested for both pregnancy and std's. You can call around for this information.

Thx I will do just that. But I have one more big problem I havent told my bf that I might be pregnant and his first thought will be that I cheated on him I love him so much how am I gonna tell him what happened? I dont want to lose him pls help!

Just tell him you didnt and if he doubts u he can geta paternity test when the baby comes and leave it alone if he wants to argue over it dont it will just make u look like u are trying hard convince him that u didnt just b straight forward and confident cant argue with someone who wont

If he loves you and you are ment for each other he will understand. It will really be a test of your love for each other and if he stands by you then you will know that you are to be with him. Kinda look at it as a test of his caring for you.

I would find out if you are pregnant before you open a can of worms that can't be closed. If you aren't preggers there isn't a need to tell him. If you are clean of stds too then there isnt' a need to tell him either. I would be very careful about having sex until you are tested for stds. I know that I keep stresssing the stds but you have the rest of your life to live with this and you are better off knowing that the sob didn't give you anything.

The best of luck to you sweetheart...Keep us informed.

Genipher

No problem about stressing on the std's sunflower, it makes me feel less alone and I think you are a great friend im glad you all have helped me through this, I know its not over and I don't plan on telling him till I know for sure about it all and I am not and will not be having sex with my boyfriend hes in nc right now and im in ohio so lol nothings happening in that department. Hey sunflower do you have yim I think we would be good friends and I need a good friend like you right now, if you do have yahoo messenger let me know and ill give you my screen name so maybe we can talk more :-) I feel so much better because of all of your support thanks so much all of you and I will keep you all informed :-)
crystal

Yeah I do have im on my phone. I don't have a comp at home right now but I do have it on my phone and I can give you my e-mail address at work, (ican't get it at work.) I will be happy to give it to you too.

Hey I just wanted to say i'm sorry that happend to you....The same the happend to me...I'm 18 and currently 32 weeks pregnant....Due to a rape(and I took the morning after pill which didnt work).If you want any support or someone to talk to please feel free to contact me. I know how hard it is especially when rape is involved....Also I know how hard it is to have to tell your boyfriend about it especially when its not his baby. Unfortunately for me it didnt go over too well my boyfriend ended up not being able to talk to me or even look at me because he was so hurt. Just know that anyone who really loves you will be there for you no matter what.( I also loved my boyfriend alot but I guess at this age sometimes they are too immature and too easily hurt to deal with situations like this)