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Q: Holy Cr@p
asked by: SamanthaM on February 22nd, 2006
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Maybe it's just my hormones today or something, but I am just getting really sick of all these little girls on here asking "i had unprotected sex, could I be pregnant?" or "are these symptoms?" obviously if you've had unprotected sex there is always going to be a chance of pregnancy....Take a d@mn test! I especially hate the ones like "i don't want a baby, but i'm having unprotected sex"

other than that I love these boards, I enjoy most of the people on here. I like being able to chat with other younger people who are pregnant or have children.


Being pregnant and sick is not a good combo!
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DaliciaLynn
replied on February 22nd, 2006
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I never knew there were people this retarded until I came on this forum..

It's really sad and it makes teen moms look really bad. They obviously want a baby, or they would be using protection. It's not hard to get a condom, it's not hard to open one up & put one on.

Plain and simple...If you're not responsible enough to use protection. No way in he'll you'll make it with a baby..
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SamanthaM
replied on February 22nd, 2006
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dalicialynn wrote:
i never knew there were people this retarded until I came on this forum..

It's really sad and it makes teen moms look really bad. They obviously want a baby, or they would be using protection. It's not hard to get a condom, it's not hard to open one up & put one on.

Plain and simple...If you're not responsible enough to use protection. No way in he'll you'll make it with a baby..


people look down upon me and other teen moms because of these stupid little girls that can't even spell or speak proper english getting pregnant. It makes me sick. Imagine how the future is going to be with people like this having children. It worries me. I don't want my child to grow up in a world full of stupid people. :evil:
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~*~Jillian~*~
replied on February 22nd, 2006
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Haha yeah that gangster talk that some of them have really makes me laugh..And it totally does make us look bad...But you just have to look past their stupid ways..I always want to cuss them but I dont want to stoop to that level and get banned...
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AshBoBash
replied on February 22nd, 2006
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I agree with what you guys are saying about hte girls who are always on pregnancy boards asking if they are pregnant and have pregnancy scares like every other month. But not all younger teen moms are total idiots with the gangster typing and the omgz he fing3red meh after he cummed on his hand am iz pregnunt?
I mean I know it was sloppy of me to have sex and not give serious thought to conseqinces but here I am now and I can't go back on it so i've accepted it and so has my family, babies dad, and his family. I don't have anything morally agianst abortion but I decided its not what I wanted to do.
I never had any pregnancy scares before, i'd only just started having sex and it was with the same guy. When I though I was pregnant I didn't go ask on a message board or look up syptoms online and freak myself out about it I went and bought a test from the grocery store.
Those girls who act all stupid about getting pregnant are making me feel stupid and I dont want to get stereotyped that im going to be a horrible mom and i"m a total douche and havent learned anything and i'll make the same mistake over and over because some dorks online that are around my age are doing that. I am different yeah I know it was dumb of me to get pregnant in the first place but i"m not running around online acting like a douchbag over it. I just don't want you guys to think i'm like all those other young girls that are pregnant, or think they are, or even fake they are. Cause i'm not i'd like to make friends on here and get opinions on things and get knowlege on what i'm in for with the rest of my pregnancy and when my baby is born. Thanks!
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SamanthaM
replied on February 22nd, 2006
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I'm not talking about all young pregnant girls, only the stupid ones that don't even know proper english and can't take care of themselves. They think "hehehe i've almost gotten pregnant 5 times, I think i'll keep having unprotected sex" those are the ones that give us all a bad name. They make people think that just because we're young we can't raise a child. I know i'll be a damn good mother, no matter what anyone says.
Ash you seem like you have a good head on your shoulders, unlike them. I wish you the best of luck.
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yellow ribbon
replied on February 23rd, 2006
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I personally think if you are having unprotected sex you are trying to get pregnant maybe subconciously but you wouldnt go to mcdonalds everyday unless you wanted to gain weight right?
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Roxiefox
replied on February 23rd, 2006
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Yeah I agree with you

because of people like them

it makes us look really bad
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AshBoBash
replied on February 23rd, 2006
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"but you wouldnt go to mcdonalds everyday unless you wanted to gain weight right?"


lol I see what your saying but I dont know if you were being sarcastic or not but I dont eat at mcdonalds cause I want to gain weight I just love thier french fries I dont htink its something subconscious that I want to get fat so I eat at mcdonalds lol!!! Thats funny
anyways yeh girls like that really embarrass me because i'm a younger teen but I don't go acting a fool on message boards and I can gaurentee you I am not getting pregnant again after I have this baby cause I know how easy it is to get pregnant now I use to think it was really hard to get pregnant I guess I was just thinking what I wanted to and not what really happens.
What I hate is when they misspell the word pregnant. Am I pregent??? Lol.
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Eyes Wide Shut
replied on February 23rd, 2006
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I had the same problem with dealing with ignorance on these forums....I just don't read the one's that are stated..."am I preggy" or what not....Just don't waste your eye sight on reading them...It's as easy as that....

It is funny how people haven't even missed their period and they say the have cravings and heartburn!!! Lmao....Which we all know doesn't come on until after the 3 month mark!!

Good luck guys....

Sarah
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Roxiefox
replied on February 23rd, 2006
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Yeah thats true

(nice remark about mcdonalds lol)

yeah I don't thin ki am goign to have anymore after these, I think I will have my hands ful
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yellow ribbon
replied on February 23rd, 2006
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I love mcdonalds fries 2 but I dont eat there everyday cuz I no they will make me fat like girls who dont want babies shouldnt have unprotected sex cuz thats how babies are made. See in relation to eating mcdonalds because its good you would have sex because its good (lol) but you would use protection same as you would only go to mc donalds on occasion.

And as for not reading the posts that sound stupid I try not to also but it drives me nuts to see that lil orange flag on the side and not make it go away. Lol I have .O.C.D
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Jolie_3110
replied on February 23rd, 2006
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Your the same as me! Lol! I have to click on all the orange flags too!
Totally agree with the 'am I pregnant' posts why don't people test and then write?
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SamanthaM
replied on February 23rd, 2006
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jolie_3110 wrote:
your the same as me! Lol! I have to click on all the orange flags too!
Totally agree with the 'am I pregnant' posts why don't people test and then write?


haha, I do that too.. Even if I know I don't want to read it.
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xxrachelxx
replied on February 26th, 2006
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(x).
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SamanthaM
replied on February 26th, 2006
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xxrachelxx wrote:
hmm...I did notice that there are a lot of ignorant girls here...When I was fifteen and pregnant with summer, I used to get a lot of glares and people spoke down to me, but I didn't feel like I gave them reason to. These girls are just asking to be patronized.


I think that there are some 15 year olds and possibly younger that will be great mothers. It's just the ones that still act like children themselves that irritate me. They make the rest of us look bad.
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Lalee
replied on February 26th, 2006
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Lol. You people crack me up. But I am so glad i'm not the only one thinking "oh, good lord" thoughts about the people who say stuff like, "my bf and I had sexx and he busted in me and he wasnt wering condum ok so ami pregnet?"

i just think, "your poor child." lol i'm sorry. That's mean, but I can't help it!
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michelle1981
replied on February 26th, 2006
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xxrachelxx wrote:
hmm...I did notice that there are a lot of ignorant girls here...When I was fifteen and pregnant with summer, I used to get a lot of glares and people spoke down to me, but I didn't feel like I gave them reason to. These girls are just asking to be patronized.

give it a few more weeks rachel, and you'll understand why we get so aggravated by some of these girls :wink:
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DaliciaLynn
replied on February 27th, 2006
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I get stares & smirks when i'm in public.

Today I walked past a kid that looked my age, and he laughed. I looked at him and chuckled like he did. He gave me a dirty look and I gave one back and said "is there a problem" and he turned around & walked off.

That's just something you have to prepare yourself for, you begin to realize it's all the judgemental, snobby people that give you the looks & smirks. They're not worth my time and I doubt they're worth yours either!
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LivvysMomma
replied on February 28th, 2006
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Those posts drive me absolutely nuts! I've been "lurking" here ever since .I found out .I was pregnant, but .I posted for the first time a few days ago. As much as .I know .I'm going to love my daughter, she was a total and complete accident, .I swear. I was on .The .Pill, and my boyfriend wore a condom, which broke, but we thought we were okay because I was on birth control. Well, obviously, even with all the precautions we took .I still got pregnant, which .I'm not complaining about, because .I've wanted to be a mom from the time .I was, like, four, but still...
When .I thought .I was pregnant, .I told my mom first, and then she bought two tests with me, and .I tried them both, and .I got two positives (obviously). I didn't come here posting messages like ".I might be pregnant but .I didn't take a test yet. What should .I do?" arg! Maybe it's the hormones, but .I just can't stand those posts. Or the random cravings .I've had for pistachio ice cream. I hate pistachios!
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