Hi, me and my husband have been trying for a year and a half with no success, we are now using ovulex and amberoz, but anyway, some of his guys(alot it seems to me) come out afterward, and according to my dr it is perfectly normal and that plenty stay inside to do there job. Also it could be ur secretions you see, women produce lubrication so it might be you in the white stuff to, well good luck ~~~baby dust~~~~