"ermmm we are talking personal opinion here"
i know, I am simply trying to understand it
" selfish? Maybe but if so then I hold my hands up to being selfish my child will leave my body when it so chooses not when I choose it to that is the way of nature ."
alot of modern medicine interferes with nature in order to save lives. I appreciate it's your opinion but I don't quite understand why you'd choose to die because of an unviable pregnancy, what about existing family?