I have been in a special relationship for 8 months now with a very great man. We've been there for each other through hard times. He knows the ins and outs of me and likewise to unto him. Of course we have a few issues (race, religion, location)...But we seem to get through it whenever the occasion sprouts up over and over again.

He has some family issues in which he him must resolve for the reason being that he is the only 'man' in his family and no one else is capable of taking care and resolving these family issues (such as a relative's health and financial status). He is a caring guy and will do anything for them.

To get to the point...

It has come to the point where he must go overseas to help them for quite a few years.

I was given an ultimatum to either go with him overseas or break up.

I have to finish college this year, get my medical license, earn money, I would have to leave my family, and etc.

We are not good at distant relationships. At one instance, he was gone for a month and we couldn't handle it...To the point where we broke up (and got back together again of course). But one month compared to a few years is even more challenging...


Should I go and leave everything behind?

Or...

Go?



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