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Q: Need Help And Advice About Asking Someone Out
asked by: damien123 on February 17th, 2006
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Ok well...Here we go. I basically like this girl who I work with. We kissed on a night out last year but nothing ever came from it! I'm not sure if she feels the same cos sometimes she is a bit flirty and sometimes not - I mean when I walk passed her she sticks her tongue out at me and things like that! I havent been in work much this week and havent been able to give her a valentines card. Athough we text a bit on valentines day she seemed pretty down that everyone was loved up! I said that I had got her a card and from what I could tell she seemed pretty happy - although she never replied to my last text message! I said i'd give her the card on monday and basically would like some advice on how to approach giving her the card cos I would like to ask her out...Or get to know her a bit more! I just dont know how to approach this cos my past record is not very good with girls as you might see from my posts! I'm not too bad looking and I know i'm a nice guy - I just need a few compliments to boost my self esteem I guess! Anyway what do you think? Any feed back or help would be fab. Thanks in advance damien
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Melissa_20
replied on February 17th, 2006
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Just come strait out and tell her you like her and you want to get to know her better.Suggest going out,and make a date b/c if you don't set a date to do it,most likely it wont happen.Just go for it!
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damien123
replied on February 17th, 2006
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About half way through last year I was texting her and she became quite flirty and said that she thinks i'm a genuine guy and that she finds me attractive! Then a month or so after we were on a very rare night out and we kissed but she was drunk - I wasnt - although she did text me the day after saying she didnt regret it! But that was then and this is now - lol - how do I react if she says "that she thinks i'm a nice guy but probably not." ? Sorry but I always expect the worse! Lol
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Melissa_20
replied on February 20th, 2006
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I know, I use to think like that too.If you go up to her with confidence and she can see that,she will most likely not turn you down.Girls like confidence but not too much to the point where you are cocky. Just ask and if she says no it may hurt your feelings,but just say "thats cool,i can respect that."that will lessen the chance of feeling akward around each other afterwards and also tell her you would like to stay friends
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