Someone please give me some advice. My family gives me advice, but they have been hurt by her too, so I blow them off. Unfortunately, I can't blow this all off anymore and I need some help. It's a long story but i'll try to shorten it. It all started what I thought was innocently when I first started dating my wife. She would make promises about things that really meant nothing...Things that I think she was just trying to make me happy about. Small financial stuff, sexual stuff, etc. That led to what I think was her stealing a friend of her's credit card to buy christmas presents, and told me that the friend (an older lady) told her to use it as payment for all of the errands she had done for her, etc. Nothing came of that, but i'm not sure her friend would ever press charges, but I know they fought about it.
Then she told me that her uncle was working over seas (i had never met him) and that he had a classic corvette that he didn't want to sit in storage anymore and that he was giving it to me...Obviously I never got it, but she did get me to believe it and even started looking for a heated garage for it. At the same time, she also said that her grandmother was giving her an inheritance early so we could get a good start on our new lives. It was supposedly over $800,000.00 and had me sign a contract and pay $500.00 contract fee on a piece of land, sign a contract with a home builder and pay $250.00 to have the water and soil testing done on the land. She also had me sign a contract on a new truck and order a new car for her as well as told my sister she'd buy her a new van and had her sign paperwork on it. This was all done at the local dealership in a very small town. We would have been apprehensive, but she had what she said were account numbers and even had the bank that the wire transfer was suppose to go to. When it never came she said that her aunt talked her grandmother out of doing it.
Things like this were numerous including having me drive oaver 1200 miles twice to get the money only to miss the correct person at the bank and having to be back home to go to work. I ended up losing my job, had my car repossessed because she never made the payments that she was supposed to drop off for me. She even lied about a bank account that didn't exist and said she was suing the bank for closing the account without permission...She said she won the court case, but of course never got any money from it.
All of this stuff she still won't own up to. The only thing she has owned up to is when we seperated last year. She called me and said she found out she was pregnant with my child. I divorced my first wife because she told me after a few years of marriage that she changed her mind and didn't want children, so she knew how I felt about having a family. She moved back home and started gaining weight, etc and had my whole family believing she was pregnant. They even had a "couples" shower for her and had all of my friends there. She never went into labor, but had a date and time set up to go in for induction. I found out by the nurse at the hospital that she had a miscarriage several months earlier. It was right at the time that had it been my baby, it should have had to have a death certificate, etc. She admitted that she knew she lost the baby but that's all. She just said that wanted it so bad that she didn't know how to handle it so she pretended it was ok.
I know I have rambled on and on, but wanted to get the point across of the severity of her lies. There have obviously been other things as well. Someone please tell me if you've ever heard of anything like this or if you've gone through it and what you did. :cry: