Please don't get me wrong oh_mommy, I think deciding you are not ready for a baby and taking the responisibility to get some b/c before having sex again is a good sensible idea. I am also pro-choice ( I don't want a debate!) but I had an abortion myself about 18mths ago so I feel I have to be.
What I strongly disagree with is that you were trying for a child and if you are pregnant now then how could you abort that child knowing you purposely went out and got pregnant.
It is people like you that make others be health forum.Y and horrible to women like me who terminate because they have to.