I have been on the birth control pill noredette or something like that for almost 3 years never switched. Its quite expensive actaully so i'd expect that it works well!! I never had unprotected sex with my bfs. Only one person one time and that was my first and we were together for 4 years! I was always worried about getting pregnat and just the thought of sex without protection scared me. I recently got serious with someone and we started having unprotected sex. I still worry like crazy and I feel bad b/c I ruin the moment when I ask did you cum in me?!?! In a nervous tone of voice...If on the pill for that long period of time never switching or stopping do I have a reason so be so freaked out every single time? Plz help I dont want this to effect the relationship.