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Q: Boyfriend...baby...?
asked by: Kel67 on February 13th, 2006
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A girl from my boyfriends past has come up saying the child she had may be his. This came up a few months ago and the girl gave us the number to her lawyer, we called to try and find out about a dna test being done, the lawyer said she had put the other possible father down as the father so he wouldnt worry about it because she had not even told him of another possible father of the child. After that we kind of just let it go, well, she had come up again still sayin there is a possibility of my boyfriend being the father. Im so scared of what the results are going to be, my boyfriend hasnt even been able to figure out how/where to have a test done, so I dont know how long thats going to take, then once its done I dont know how long it will take for the results to get back, I dont want to wait for months to figure this out, this determines our relationship because ive told him already that I will not be with him if its his. If anyone has any info. About who to contact or how long a the test results will take...Please let me know.
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Melissa_20
replied on February 14th, 2006
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Why would you break up with your man if the kid is his? You said yourself the girl is from his p.A.S.T.Do you not care about your man enough to let the past go? How would you feel if he didn't want you anymore b/c you had a kid? I think you should chill out,get your priorities strait and let it go.If the kid is his,its his and there is nothing you can do about it.
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~baby~g~
replied on February 15th, 2006
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I'm not really sure exactly where they have them done, but I think they do it at some hospitals. I don't remember where my brother got his done though. It all depends. Contact a hospital or health department to find out. And, it took 6 wks. For my nephews to come back. Good luck!
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Kel67
replied on February 16th, 2006
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Well...Forgot to include..Im 17 im not dealing with that baggage, I care about him, alot but I got my life ahead of me...Im 17...Once again...Im going to college and I want to have my own kids...Not someone elses before I even have my own...Oh yeah...Did I mention im 17?...Thanks though to babyg
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w0rldd0minat0r
replied on March 2nd, 2006
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So girls have kids at 14

u need to decide whether you can deal with that.

It should be his choice as to whether he sees it not urs

this topic is about deliberation were not very sure if hes the father or not so I wouldnt get too hyped up about it

ps. Ur quite a feisty one arent u lol!
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