i apologise for the content of this post and hope that I don't offend anyone.
I was sexually abused by more than one person as a child and need to know the answer to this question in order to help with the healing process I am currently going through.
If someone has sex with a child before the child had grown fully e.G. 9/10yrs - could that mean that as an adult it would explain why they would have a big vagina.
Sorry, obviously I am talking about me and I am very embarrased about this.
I am a lesbian and apart from the abuse have never had a sexual relationship with a male.
My vagina is quite large and it is not difficult for my partner to get inside of me or move when there (sorry for the detail but I need to get to the point in order to explain).
Does the vagina increase in size after sex? Could it be that having had sex at a very young age could have made my vagina large? As I have never had sex with a male apart from the abuse.
Please help me by replying with an answer. Please do not worry aboutthe content of the reply. I need to know whether it was sex as a child that has made my vagina large or whether I am deformed.
I am sorry to hear about the trauma you suffered as a child. I can't even begin to imagine how horrible that must be to live through. As to your question, I am not positive about the relationship between sex at such a young age and vaginal size. I do know however that vaginas, as well as all other parts of the body, varies in size from person to person. Vaginas are also an accomodating organ. It stretches to accomodate everything from a penis to a baby. My guess is that your vagina is normal. I am a little curious how you determined that it was too big. I think if this is something you are overly concerned about, go to the doctor and get checked out and express your concerns to him or her. They would be the best person to explain everything to you and alleviate your concerns. I really do think you are most likely normal - but if it will make you feel better definitely go get a professional opinion. Good luck to you - let me know if I can answer any other questions for you.
I also am a woman that was sextually abused as a child. For years. I suffer from a lot of womanly issues and have always blamed it on him. I honestly think that a childs body is shaped at a young age and when you mess with nature, you ruin it. But as said before, all womans bodies are designed differently. Why would you consider yourself large??