Hi im new here and alredy got the pleasure
of meeting some of you and for the ones I
haven't met my name is julia and im 14 I
need some help or advice see like a week
ago me and my boyfriend had sex for the
first time w/out protection and he came
inside of me now he swears that im
pregnant and I do have all the symptoms I
was supposed to start my period like
yesterday and I still haven't I took a
test last night and this morning but it
said negative.My boyfriend is 18 and he
has had a pregnant girlfriend before but
she had an abortion and he really wants me
to keep this baby but im afarid that when
my mom finds out she will try to make me
have one or try to press charges on him
even though she loves him to death.Maybe
one of ya'll can give me some good advice
and help me out .Thanks
julia
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 12-29-03 14:15pm
Ok well first make sure you are pregnant.
And why did you let him come I you? You
should really get condoms. But take
another test in a few days to find out.
When did you have sex?
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youngmomtobe
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2003 Posts: 728 Location: Illinois
Posted: 12-29-03 14:17pm
Hey girl!! Im usually a regular on here
but lately im irregular b/c I cant get on
alot!! Im jeni im 22 weeks and 3 days
preggy with a lil boy and im 17 and my
boyfriend is 20!! There is a big
possibility for u being pregnant!! I
think you should wait for 4 or 5 days and
take another test thers a possibility that
you have a false negative b/c of your hgc
level (hormone in preggy woman) if its not
that high it wont always give u the
results!! Since you are in a tricky
situation....My mom has threatened me a
couple times that she was going to press
charges but she hasnt!!! Its really hard
for parents to find out that there "lil
girl" is pregnant especially pregnant by
an older guy!! At first they will
probably be irrational and try to protect
you and that but in time I hope they would
come around mine havent but im in a lil
diff. Situation that u....Okay I think
you should go to a planned parenthood or a
family practice center in your community
they give preggy tests for really cheap
and you dont need your parents permission
a blood test is really the only sure way
to get accurate results....Now keeping it
... If you and your b.F feel that you
both can take care of a baby then go for
it..You are very young so it will be hard
to finish school but its not impossible
theres a lot of programs out there that
you should deffinitely take advantage of
if you are preggy! Well keep me posted
and welcome to the boards!! Much love and
god bless!!!
Jen
&
river
dekari
due:
may 1st, 2004
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 12-29-03 15:17pm
Pat you sob stop coming in here
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 12-29-03 17:30pm
Oh hell no. Pat you m****a fu**in son of
a health forum. Keep talkin and runnin
your mouth you little queer. I swear if I
knew you id kick my shoe so far up your
a$$ youd need to move it to brush your
teeth. I swear id knock your out so fast
on your a$$, then let each of these girls
take a turn smackin the caca out of you.
Your lucky I cant reach you. Keep coming
in here and talking. Your probably some
fat a$$ pervert sittin at home, in your
speedo scratchin your ass and smellin your
finger wondering who to bother next. Why
dont you shut the hell up and go do
something useful?
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JillMarie
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Dec 2003 Posts: 3022 Location: Iowa
Posted: 12-29-03 18:21pm
Just remember a lot of pregnancy symptoms
are also period symptoms and stressing
yourself out could delay you period. I
know its hard not to think about but give
yourself a week then go to a doctor's
office and get a test. You may even be
able to get one done at your school
nurse!!
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Nikki........ Posted: 12-29-03 18:27pm
U r the best girl! I hate pat 2!
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
