Hi Meesee and welcome to ehealth...Seeing the post that you refer to is three years old, I want to reassure you that sex will be better than ever...If you expect this, then you will get it....If you look for a problem, then you will make your own problem....It is a mind game...
I always enjoyed our sex life, but after this happening, I learned another and more free part of me existed....Believe me, I have never looked back....Life is good...
I am here at the Forum if you ever have any questions...Good luck...and get a lot of rest...It is the beginning of a new and wonderful life....
Caroline