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Q: I'm Not Sure if I'm Pregnant
asked by: Nikesha on August 12th, 2003
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Confused Well me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now. And the saturday that just past we had sex and he came inside me. Well that wasn't the first time it's happened. But I didn't get pregnant the first time he came in me because it was too late and I was about to start my period and it didn't take. But then this morning when he got off work we had sex and it happened again. The reason for me saying this is that I was supposed to come on my period today, but I didn't. This is the first time that we kept having sex where he kept coming inside me. Do you think it's possible that I could be pregnant knowing that he had came in me twice before my period or is it too late for me to get pregnant. And I always keep track of when my periods are supposed to come. Or do you think that I could still have my period. I am having pain in my lower back like I am about to start my period. I really need some advice.
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HongKongChick
replied on August 12th, 2003
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Yes it's very possible of course...U can get pregnant any day even during period girl!

Now the question is that if ur period did not come on the regular date, does it really mean u are pregnant? No. Sometimes women who worried that they are pregnant are stressing themselves out and that cause ur period not to come regularly...

If ur period came and is very light, lighter than usual, get a pregancy test coz that will be a sign..But to be sure u should get on birth control from now on and just be careful.

And just wanna point out that bc does not prevent stds and hiv...So be sure to get that checked out too.
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Nikesha
replied on August 13th, 2003
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Still Unsure
Thank you hongcongchick for your reply. But i'm not stressing about it. I mean, I think about it a lot. Me and my boyfriend really want this child, if I am pregnant. But I still haven't came on my period. I have never been late on a period. I'm thinking that I might come on, but i'm still unsure. My friend told that I should wait to take a pregnancy test. Do you think that is smart? She said wait until next month if I don't come on it. My boyfriend is coming over here tomorrow and I think he's bringing over a test. When do you think I should take it? I said if i'm not on by friday, I would wait until monday to take it. But my sisters birthday party is this weekend and we plan on having some alcohol. So what should I do? Should I take it? I'm afraid it might be wrong because it was too early to take it. I'm just unsure.
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HongKongChick
replied on August 13th, 2003
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Ok...It was this past sat. And now it's tuesday....I think u can go ahead and take the pregnancy test before the birthday party.

Just take it easy on the alcohol, maybe no shots for you this time. It's not good to drink alcohol during pregnancy, but a little bit wouldnt be too much harm.

If the test turned out negative before the party, it's fine to drink but only to moderation. If the test turned out possitive, u might wanna test it once more to make sure, and then definitely no alcohol for ya missy!
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BlondeStar03
replied on September 4th, 2003
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Am I Pregnant
I have a question and I saw this website and decided to sign up
okay...My period is a week late I was suppose to get it on the 29th of aug. But I haven't gotten it yet and usually it comes by now and I can tell something isn't right. And I get these weird pains in my lower abdomen. And ive been really tired like I don't want to move and lazy and occasionally ill get nautious. Im only 17 and my boyfriend is 20 today and he doesn't want a baby but I do even thought im 17 I make $582 a month and I think I can handle the responsibility my aunt has 4 kids she just had twins and I babysit one of them all the time im like a second mommy to him and I want one of my own but he doesn't and I don't know what to do.. Im probally gunna get a pg test either today or tomorrow but for the time any advise or answers please get back to me thanks for your time

~blondestar03~
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nikki_caro
replied on September 4th, 2003
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Ok you may be 17 and make that much a month but its not enough. I make 3 times that and I dont think I can afford a baby. You should wait til your out of school, have a secure job and a steady pay. One thing is watching another baby, another is having your own. Its way too hard. Your boyfriend is right. Dont have a baby so early. If you have to do it by your self...Trust me you will wish you waited. Anyways, your period might just be a little late and you dont get symptoms that fast. It just might be in your head. If your period is about another few days to a week late then go take a test. Good luck.
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HongKongChick
replied on September 4th, 2003
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Nikki is right (again) responsibilities are about alot of things, not only ur mental, physical, or finanical. Though ur might want a baby, but do think about it though, ur aunt's baby is her baby, u only baby sit him, it's not urs, so it's 100 times less stressful!

I am not saying u shouldnt have the baby, but at least really think with ur brain before making a decision in which u might regret. Becoz thinking with ur biological clock is not wise.
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Anonymous
replied on December 18th, 2008
im 14 & i also think im pregnant...sad pat is its not just me.....3 of my friends 15,15,and 17 have had r expecting their babies.
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faen
replied on November 4th, 2009
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Hi

i just have a question and it the first time that i have sex and iam 18 years old and iam engage and this is the first time that i had a sex on 15 october and iam really warried that if i get pregnent my period use to be come on 2th but it is now 4th and havnt come until now so am i pregnet and some athers months to my period come late but this time iam warried about pregnency
so i really dont know am i pregnent or no and what to do ? hope u answer my question
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faen
replied on November 4th, 2009
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and i have pain in my back and stomach 2
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