Hello

i think that you should sit down and talk to him really and I think there is no communication between you two.. Which is really really important. Sometimes a person will feel different when theres no sex involved or what not but however just sit down with him and discuss why hes acting that way and stuff.

If you two really love each other then its the only thing missing is the communication.

Let us know.. Keep us updated..

Yea let him know how you feel about everything. You will feel better for getting it out in the open, and he might have no idea you feel that way, and hopefully he'll apologise and try to change things.

very well said!

I try talking to him he tells me to shut the medical question up

Try it he knows how I feel

He's obviously a worthless piece of crap that doesn't deserve your time...

Leave him, you're going to hear that a lot if you tell people your story....But I know how hard it is as i've been in a similiar situation. It took me over a year to realize I was better than that & didn't deserve to be treated the way I was.

I honestly don't know what to say except do what you feel is right, and if you can't leave him then there's no since in making posts complaining about it..

You want things to get better correct? The only way to make it better is to leave him.

You have a choice, decide.

Exactly what d just said.

Not saying he doesn't love you, but I know you could have a guy that would listen to you and give you some of his time! I can understand the part about sex, I mean that would really hurt but if some guy tells me to shut the f**k up that's the last straw lol nobody deserves to be talked to like that, especially not by some man that's supposed to love them.

Just think about it, i'm sure it'd be hard to leave someone like that especially when you've got two kids with him, but you don't need that. You have your kids to take care of you don't need to stick around for him to treat u like crap. Maybe if u just left with your kids for a while, and made him realize what he has to lose? Who knows, good luck :)

O.O wow ive had some bad friends and ive seen my friends get into bad relationships but seriously your guy has some control problems, either that or hes very stressed out, if I were you id see if there was some other way to bring him around to talking about it, do it slowly so he doesnt feel like hes being pushed though(sorry if im interupting just thought youd like an oppinion from another point of view)

I am goping to try to talk to him one last time if it edoesnt work then iam moving back in with my mom and dad

Do you have a job? Then maybe you can rent an apartment for yourself and kids instead of going back to your parents house.

Well we talked today and he said things wil change and that hew wants to spen the rest of his life with me.....

Well good luck to you, I really hope he changes for your sake, and for your children.

I know i'm young but i'm from a "broken home" and if you're only staying for the sake of the kids just remember its better to be from a broken home than to be in one.

Good luck :)