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tonii9999
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Nov 2005
Posts: 81
Location: philly
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Man Problems
Posted: 02-11-06 14:23pm
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Well I been with guy for 3 years we
have 2 kids together.
He doesnt spend any time with me we like
never have sex the other day we had sex
like once for th first time in a long time
so in the middle of sex he stops and says
I cant stay hard.. He did it a few times
to me I just feel so alone he treats me
like iam not here
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sweetlildakota4e
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Joined: 20 Jan 2006
Posts: 71
Location: greece, ny
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Posted: 02-11-06 15:56pm
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Hello
i think that you should sit down and talk
to him really and I think there is no
communication between you two.. Which is
really really important. Sometimes a
person will feel different when theres no
sex involved or what not but however just
sit down with him and discuss why hes
acting that way and stuff.
If you two really love each other then its
the only thing missing is the
communication.
Let us know.. Keep us updated..
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AlliE_18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Dec 2005
Posts: 2129
Location: uk
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Posted: 02-11-06 16:17pm
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Yea let him know how you feel about
everything. You will feel better for
getting it out in the open, and he might
have no idea you feel that way, and
hopefully he'll apologise and try to
change things.
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michelle1981
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Posted: 02-11-06 23:55pm
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| sweetlildakota4e
wrote: | hello
i think that you should sit down and talk
to him really and I think there is no
communication between you two.. Which is
really really important. Sometimes a
person will feel different when theres no
sex involved or what not but however just
sit down with him and discuss why hes
acting that way and stuff.
If you two really love each other then its
the only thing missing is the
communication.
Let us know.. Keep us
updated.. |
very well said!
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tonii9999
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Nov 2005
Posts: 81
Location: philly
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Posted: 03-06-06 20:43pm
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I try talking to him he tells me to shut
the medical question up
| sweetlildakota4e
wrote: | hello
i think that you should sit down and talk
to him really and I think there is no
communication between you two.. Which is
really really important. Sometimes a
person will feel different when theres no
sex involved or what not but however just
sit down with him and discuss why hes
acting that way and stuff.
If you two really love each other then its
the only thing missing is the
communication.
Let us know.. Keep us
updated.. |
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tonii9999
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Nov 2005
Posts: 81
Location: philly
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Posted: 03-06-06 20:44pm
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Try it he knows how I feel
| allie_18
wrote: | | yea let him know how you
feel about everything. You will feel
better for getting it out in the open, and
he might have no idea you feel that way,
and hopefully he'll apologise and try to
change
things. |
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DaliciaLynn
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Joined: 29 Jul 2005
Posts: 2322
Location: Missouri
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Posted: 03-06-06 21:22pm
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He's obviously a worthless piece of crap
that doesn't deserve your time...
Leave him, you're going to hear that a lot
if you tell people your story....But I
know how hard it is as i've been in a
similiar situation. It took me over a
year to realize I was better than that
& didn't deserve to be treated the way
I was.
I honestly don't know what to say except
do what you feel is right, and if you
can't leave him then there's no since in
making posts complaining about it..
You want things to get better correct?
The only way to make it better is to leave
him.
You have a choice, decide.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 03-06-06 21:58pm
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Exactly what d just said.
Not saying he doesn't love you, but I know
you could have a guy that would listen to
you and give you some of his time! I can
understand the part about sex, I mean that
would really hurt but if some guy tells me
to shut the f**k up that's the last straw
lol nobody deserves to be talked to like
that, especially not by some man that's
supposed to love them.
Just think about it, i'm sure it'd be hard
to leave someone like that especially when
you've got two kids with him, but you
don't need that. You have your kids to
take care of you don't need to stick
around for him to treat u like crap.
Maybe if u just left with your kids for a
while, and made him realize what he has to
lose? Who knows, good luck :)
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Rhemora
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Mar 2006
Posts: 23
Location: Australia
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Posted: 03-07-06 02:35am
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O.O wow ive had some bad friends and ive
seen my friends get into bad relationships
but seriously your guy has some control
problems, either that or hes very stressed
out, if I were you id see if there was
some other way to bring him around to
talking about it, do it slowly so he
doesnt feel like hes being pushed
though(sorry if im interupting just
thought youd like an oppinion from another
point of view)
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tonii9999
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Nov 2005
Posts: 81
Location: philly
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Man Problems
Posted: 03-07-06 08:52am
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I am goping to try to talk to him one
last time if it edoesnt work then iam
moving back in with my mom and dad
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AlliE_18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Dec 2005
Posts: 2129
Location: uk
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Posted: 03-07-06 09:03am
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Do you have a job? Then maybe you can
rent an apartment for yourself and kids
instead of going back to your parents
house.
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tonii9999
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Nov 2005
Posts: 81
Location: philly
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Man Problems
Posted: 03-08-06 22:05pm
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Well we talked today and he said things
wil change and that hew wants to spen the
rest of his life with me.....
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 03-08-06 22:26pm
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Well good luck to you, I really hope he
changes for your sake, and for your
children.
I know i'm young but i'm from a "broken
home" and if you're only staying for the
sake of the kids just remember its better
to be from a broken home than to be in
one.
Good luck :)
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