Did he say why? Sometimes maybe they just wernt really excited when they started, or alot of other things could make him just not hard at that moment, doesnt mean oh he thought you didnt look good or something, but you shoulda asked, are you not turned on, or just not in the mood, whats up? Maybe all it coulda taken was a sexy pose or position he could see you in to get his blood flowin again, you need something to get you excited! Don't get to crazy over it, just talk to him, or forget it, and if everything goes back to normal then cool, and if the situation happens again, then ask him on the spot. Hope I could help in someway.
Best of luck to you, take care. :)

He could've just been tired. I know when my bf is tired and ready to go to bed and I jump on him.. He's willing, but he doesn't stay hard the entire time. I have to re-excite it so to say. Also, if he was drinking that affects things as well.

My bf often can't when he is tired, which dosn't bother me at all.
But last time I stayed over he couldn't on the mornin. I put it down to him still been tired.
But we've had problems the last two times aswel. He couldn't stay hard after he put a condom on. I thought it might be because i'm on the pill and his subconcious is sayin he don't need it. So we did it without. The next time we did it we decided to not use a condom again and he went floppy then aswel! Although it was fine after a bit it made me feel a bit rubbish. I'm really concerned the same will happen next time.

Maybe he was nervous...Or tired...

You should sit down and talk with him...Maybe he has a problem that he hasnt yet told you because he is scared...Just try to have a normal convo and see what the problem was!

If it happens again, the key is to try to act like its nothing out of the ordinary. Try to make him feel comfortable, because odds are the reason it happened is because he was uncomfortable about something (tired, stressed, a lot on his mind-whatever the case may be) and that will just make him feel worse. Just help him get hard again, and try try again.

We did talk and at the time he didn't know. But he thought about it some more and said to me it's coz he isn't lusting after me all the time because we've been going out a while now and he happy just hugging. What I mean is it isn't all about sex anymore, coz it so much more. So i'm all happy bananas now.
It's probably the same problem for tonnii.

Im not gonna say that its not because you dont turn him on because me being a female myself if my man told me that or if seemed like thats what the problem is im gonna automatically feel like he is not feeling me or attracted to me the way he makes it seem. There is nothing wrong with you feeling that way.Of course if you question him he will say oh baby its not that". You have to do things sometimes to get their attention in a sexual way. Talk dirty to him, let him know that its his. Make him know its his even if it means you need to be in control for a while just to get things jumping. Call out his name during sex, tell him you love him during sex. Men love to see and hear emotions in a female while they are having sex.Thats real. Ya gurl right here got skills my man cant get enough. If your not given him head that may be the problem to. He may want you to do that so he will tell you it wont stay hard.Think about it. :)

i'm sorry,your different from me but if my man told me he wasn't hard for that reson I would be pissed.I love having sex with my b/f and if we stopped I would not feel so good.How long have you guys been together?

Cortney-how old are you-are you sure you should be talking in this forum when you have no idea what you are talking about? I dont think you are helping anyone with their problems. "ya gurl right here got skills my man cant get enough" ?!?! What the medical question is that? You must be on chemical dependancy

"i dont think you are helping anyone with their problems. "ya gurl right here got skills my man cant get enough" ?!?!"

i have to agree with this, it's a very immature response :?

There are many possibilities as to why he may have gone flacid during sex, have you spoken to him bout it? If nt, i'm afraid its the only way you're gng to know fo sure - we can give you possible easons but te truth is that not one of us can know for sure.

We've been going out for 6 months. We have a really healthy sex life. My drive just stronger than his. Havn't had any problems in ages. It's all good. I'm not worried.

Your mother must be on chemical dependacies if you dont like what I say dont f***in read itan opinion is an opinion so goo mess wit someone else you dont want to get it started whatever your name penelope thats making me sick

haha read her thread about baby mamma dramma...Its hilarious and even worse...She is horrible!

Why are you on a new post talkin sh** you must like me do you want to meet me n person or something stupid. You being on a different post talking sh** is halarious what a little gurl thats immature to and look where you are from b**** you are trash ill you probaly dirty too.

Ok ladies you dont have to be rude to one another...Everyone has their opinion and everyone's opinions are appreciated...Back to the subject...Sometimes guys cant get as hard when youre using condoms too. I was on the pill for 5 years and my bf and I were used to having unprotected sex, but recently I got off the pill and sometimes when we use condoms he wont get as hard as he would when I was on the pill due to the lack of friction...Another reason could be that the female is really lubricated and he cant feel as much friction.

i wasnt being rude.. Never once did I say anything that wasnt true in my post...So therefore...The truth hurts and she had to cuss me out...Haha and no sweetheart I dont like you...I was just telling them how you were because they also called you immature and I just wanted them to see even worse post...Because what you said in this one was just the beginning :wink:

oh yeah did you forget that I was through posting to your skanky butt!

You must do like me you cant stop replying little 18 year old baby with a baby post that b****. Lol stop hatin on me that sounds like jealousy cause my life is better than yours stay n a childs place. Me n my homie been told your young and dumb self to quit posting. You dont know me and I dont know so keep ya mouth shut. Im through little gurl now continue to say stuff that just mean you cant help it. And miko is right everyone has there own opinion so u know what I respect your opinon thats all it is anyway you been rude since I put my post up but I love ur responses though bye hun.

ok,that wasn't her whole response smart one.Kepp your problem with her in the other post.This person who posted this thread needs help,not someone to start an argument.

Exactly she is such a kid