Well, if he doesn't respect her enough to wait until she's ready, then she's better off without him :wink:

Him wanting/asking for sex doesnt mean hes got no respect for her does it? Its natural damnit!

Allie you are a horndog! Lol

i mentioned respect because you mentioned that ^^^

if he can't be faithful, then that completely has to do with respect..Get it?

Lol well I dont get what u all mean on this. Im confuddled

No

No because if your not giving it to him, hes going to look elsewhere, and why not? Everyone has needs

I'm sure he has hands........ Remember allie she's 15 not 35!

Im not a horndog macysmama lol!
Well im just saying how guys see it. 15 is old enough. If you dont want to then dont, but she could just be mates with him instead.

Omg allie I don't know what kind of guys you date or w/e, but just because we're in a relationship does not mean we have to be having sex. I know he would never cheat on me with anyone else for sex anyways.

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The only guy that pressure me for sex was a big loser!!! And a player and I dumped him! Every other guy that I dated never pressured me for sex! They always said that they would wait until I was ready.

Yeah some guys have "needs" and go cheat on you if they aren't getting it from you, those are the ones that are no good and you don't need to have them in your life, even if you give it up they'll still go out and cheat on you! Why? Because they are just some horny dogs that have to moral values and don't respect women (they just see you as a piece of meat)

Well if u want to keep him just do it, dont make it a huge deal people.

It is a huge deal! I lost my virginity and I thought I was ready at the time and now I think it was a big mistake!!
I wish I would have waited, I guess most people realize that when they mature. The point is that it is up to the individual to do what she wants to do and not be pressured into doing anything.

If you sleep with a guy to keep him than you are not very smart.

You dont need to make a big deal out of sex, it really isnt. If your bf will stick around and wait until you're ready then great, but if he keeps on about it, then just do it. Im sure you'll be glad the first time is over with anyway. It hurts!

My bf and I went too far and we had sex for the first time...It was the first time for both of us and we realized that we werent ready! And now my bf is the one saying that we need to settle down and he's really sticking to that idea. Hes being the man and taking charge of our mistake. Not all guys are stupid and just want you for sex.

allie, you are a headcase. It's really hard to be a serious relationship if you base your decisions on what some dumb boy wants. Sex is a big issue. If you sleep with most guys that don't give a hoot about your feelings, you will feel gutted alive afterward when they leave. We women have to protect ourselves because we are built differently than men. We are meant to nurture and men are meant to spread as much DNA as possible.