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Q: Losing Hope
asked by: jknight on February 7th, 2006
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Hello everyone

i have not posted anything in here is quite sometime but now I feel like in need to let out my feeling without being treated like I am being selfish or something

i have been trying to get pg since my first mc dec 2004 with no luck and having really bad cycles....My last period was december 20 2005 and nothing since then.....It is really bringin me down

then 2 days ago I found out that two of my best friends were pg and about 1 week apart in their due date, considering that I was about 2 weeks like I decided to buy a hpt.......Bfn....I have a dr's appt tomorrow so I am hoping to get some answeres the.

Dont get me wrong I am thrilled for my friends and the future with their new babys but I have be waitin and waiting doing almost everthing I can and nothing is happening for me....I am seriously starting to lose hope about being able to have a nother baby.

Ty for reading this I just need to talk to someone

jenn
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QueenBee2_3
replied on February 7th, 2006
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I understand the longing for a baby while it seems everyone else is getting pregnant and living your dream. I know it's hard, but try not to internalize their pregnancies. You can't compare yourself to them, as if you're failing somehow by not being pregnant yet. What they're going through shouldn't have anything to do with you. I know that sounds easy for me to say, but i've been where you are, longing for a baby and not being able to have one (whether by choice or not).

I wish you lots of luck in your appointment to figure out what's happening. I hope you get some answers and solutions.
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Eyes Wide Shut
replied on February 7th, 2006
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The same thing happened to me girl...The only 3 real friends I had all got pregnant and I was the only one who wasn't. We weren't trying..Just not preventing..But we weren't the most financially stable people in the world.

Everyone had their babies and everbody was doing great..And I was secretly longing for a baby...Then hurricane katrina came...And little did I know I was preggy. I wasn't expecting it or anything. I had actually given up on anticipating my period to not come..Ya know?

Sure enough..When I got back home from evacuating and talked to an insurance company about insurance..I was 10 1/2 months!!

Now my fiance has a waaaaay better job and we're doing a lot better financially..So it's honestly all up to fate...When you are doing the best in your life is when you'll conceive..When you least expect it..Fate will intervene!! I have faith that it'll be your time soon...Don't stress it..Just have fun trying to conceive!!! Lol....

Good luck....~*~*~baby dust~*~*~

sarah
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