|well here's what happened.
I told him. I had gotten some calls from friends accusing me of pranking him?? I had had enough so I called him and just yelled at his answering machine. I then got on aim and did the same thing. I go "okay zach I cant lie to you anymore" and I told him.
Yah he goes "i understand and I stick by your decision."
He said he doesn't want his son to think of him and he wants me to have him contact him when he's 'clean'
which is bs cuz zach only smokes on occasion.
So he thinks he's getting a free ride.
But me and my mother are drawing up paperwork. We're gonna have someone leave it at vinces pasta and pizza where he works and i'm gonna let him know that i'll have a court date for mid-august to early-sept. And I know he's gonna pull the whole "it's not mine." so i'm gonna give him alist of paternity testing places and let him choose so it's legit.
|i don't know if he'll contest paternnity. In some ways I hope he does so I can make him look like an idiot. But will the court make him pay me for the 9 months I had to handle the baby on my own??? I can't just sit down and talk to him. I think in a way I gave him the idea he didn't have to do anything. Now he has all his friends out to get me. Like they all hate me. And it's making me feel like i'm the girl who ruined his life. But it did take 2 to tango. He thinks that cuz iiiii decided to keep it then iiii should have to deal with it. And I don't want him to just be a check to my son every month. And I really do not want to call him or anything. I just need to know how to approach it.|