Idea of the Chances of Bein Preg.

If you're using a condom, why are #1 and #2 even a consideration? Or are those only for if you're not using a condom? I'm confused.

Pelase helkp me..I just want to have sex..And I dont want to have any chances...

I know abstince is best but I mean what else can I do that will reduce the chances as low as possible..

I use trojan spermicidal condoms and I plan to pull out with the condom on...


So I mean what are the chances??

Ok, any time you have sex at all, you have a chance of a pregnancy resulting. Abstinence is not only "best" for those who don't want/need a baby or who might be too young, it's pretty much the only way to guarantee no pregnancy.

Now, you're being responsible enough to wear a condom and blah, blah, blah... That's commendable. Wearing a condom is a good idea. But I would not want you leaving this forum with the idea in your head that there's no way you can get a girl pregnant as long as you do those things. It's still possible; not probable, but possible. It would also increase your chances of not getting a girl pregnant if the girl were on birth control.

Unfortunately, my friend, just being able to have sex without worry of any consequences is a fantasy. The best you can do is be responsible (like it appears you are doing) and be willing to accept whatever consequences may come anyway.

I'm afraid that pulling out while wearing a condom may even worsen the chances. It could slip off and then it would totally defeat the purpose.
The above poster is correct. If you want to have sex, fine. But there's always that chance. Be careful of spermicidal condoms though if your gf is prone to utis. They have the tendancy to increase the chances of a uti somehow.
I think that if your gf gets herself on some birth control, and you stick to wearing your condoms, your chances are slim. However, they're not none. I have a friend that was on bc, her boyfriend used condoms, it broke, she took the morning after pill, and as a result, she has a 5 year old son. Nothing is fool proof. There's always risks.

Like they said, if you have sex, no matter what you use or do, pregnancy can always happen. When people have sex, some don't realize the consequences that can happen. All they care or think "it's fun and harmless, i'll never get pregnant if i'm safe about it". Which is total bs.

If you are mature enough to have sex, then you should be mature enough to handle the responsibilities a child brings to you without thinking of abortion. If you're not ready to have a child, don't have sex.

If you and your gf is going to have sex, do everything you listed and have your gf get on birth control to help reduce the chances even more. If you are both teens, she can go to a planned parenthood and get birth control for free without her parents ever knowing.

But I must say this, when pulling out with the condom on, hold onto the base of the condom. Wrap your hand around it or something. Holding onto it will help semen not spill out. Just be very careful with condoms as they can break and you never know when they will.

Well I have to agree with what every one has said so far but I will tell you this...Even normal healthy couples having sex everyday trying to get pregnant only have about a 25% chance of getting pregnant in any given month. I have been trying for about five or six months now and still...Nothing. But I have talked to girls who have been on the pill and used condoms and still somehow managed to get pregnant. (i hate them) - just kidding.. Any way if you have someone you care about and you want to have sex using a condom with spermicide is a great idea, and pulling out is fine as long as you are holding on to that condom so it doesnt get stuck inside instead of staying on you! But before you have sex I would definitly reccomend having her get on some sort of birth control as well, because it is so much more effective than a concom alone.

And while im at it let me remind you that there are far worse things to worry about than getting a girl pregnant- like stds. One in three sexually active adults have hpv (genital warts), 1 in 4 have genital herpes, and %50% have oral herpes-not as big of a deal but still... And by the way many of them dont know they have an std b/c they may not show any signs or symptoms but are carrying the virus.

Alrighty...Have fun!!

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Thanks to everyone respondin..I understand what everyone was saying..And I know theres still a chance...

Anyone have any idea what the chances in % are with everything I would do?



Thx again to everyone

Well, i'm not trying to scare you or anything like that....But even with knowing the percentages, those are only numbers and you very well could be that .1% that it happens to. Sorry I couldn't tell you the percentages. Good luck and be safe.