This is a very common question asked by people who are addicted to something but want to quit. They often cannot make out on how to start this process of quitting. Well, try to play the role of a motivator to your boyfriend first, since you yourself have not been smoking for the last one monthâ¦right? Try to make him feel that itâs not that hard to quit these habits, only if, one is determined. If still he feels it to be hard, then take him to the aa meetings or some rehab programs. If you donât have much clear idea about these rehab programs, then, just let me know. I think; iâll be able to help you in this regard.