Joined: 20 Nov 2004 Posts: 209 Location: San Diego, CA United States
My Boyfriend Does Not Want to Use Condoms Posted: 02-04-06 12:25pm
Hello i'm 17 years old turning 18 in about
2 months...I've been using birth control
pill (ortho-tricyclen lo) for almost a
month already...My boyfriend does not want
to use condoms...Coz I guess it decreases
that sensation or watever..And I just want
to be extra safe even though i'm taking
birth control pills...Can anyone suggest
me something that I can use besides
condoms to decrease the possibility of
pregnancy even more? Thanks
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smurfsgirl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 196 Location: PA
Posted: 02-04-06 12:50pm
You can try spermicidal jelly you can buy
it at walmart or other stores in the
section where the condomsare they also
have other items. And remember to take
your birth control every day around the
same time. Just remember both of you
need to get tested before you stop using
condoms. I hope I could help.
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Carifairy
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Posted: 02-04-06 14:24pm
No offense cuz I am pro choice,but ask him
if he is gonna pay for an abortion, or
the major amount of money it takes to
raise a child.
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Cambion
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Posted: 02-04-06 15:03pm
If you will feel safer using condoms, then
tell him so. If he still does not want to
make you feel comfortable because he's
doing all his thinking with his dick, then
it's a pretty big red flag that he just
wants you for some action, not because he
cares. Who gives a flying crap if the
sensation isn't as good? There's still
sensation. Tell him to quit being such a
whiny baby unless he wants to increase the
risk of having to care for a whiny baby.
You are both aware that birth control is
not 100 percent effective in preventing
conception, correct? Taken correctly, it
is about 99 percent effective - correctly
is the key word. One in 100 women who use
it properly will still get knocked up, and
if you mess up once and miss a pill, the
effectiveness of the pill decreases.
Anyway, if you're looking for more
protection, you can try spermicide. I
have no idea how effective it is, but it's
still protection.
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Carifairy
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Posted: 02-04-06 15:25pm
Yes spermicides are definately a good
option to use also :0
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mariana
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2006 Posts: 79
Posted: 02-05-06 22:40pm
I have also heard that condom's don't
decrease sensation at all - that it's a
load of crap! You can get a bunch of
different kinds, and I think there is an
"extra thin" kind too.
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Glamorgirli
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Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 193 Location: Michigan
Posted: 02-05-06 23:02pm
If he dosn't want to use one, he really
only cares about himself and not about
you! The thin ones will have more of a
sensation then a normal one, but as long
as the guy has the big o at the end, he
shouldn't even be mad about using a
condom! Do what feels right to you if
you feel safer using a condom he should
respect it!
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mariana
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2006 Posts: 79
Posted: 02-05-06 23:33pm
He could look at it this way: no sex at
all, or sex with maybe a tiny bit less
sensation - let him decide!
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She_Saved_Me
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Joined: 12 Jan 2006 Posts: 4 Location: ,
Posted: 02-08-06 00:41am
If he dosent want to use them lose him.
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Crazyness24
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Joined: 24 Jan 2006 Posts: 179 Location: Jersey
Posted: 02-08-06 10:33am
What you feel should be taken into
consideration. Make sure he's gonna be
there is things change.
