I am pregnant and single if you would like to talk to me...you can pm me on here.


I am sorry that everything is complicated. You can go to univeristy and have a kid...You'll find universities have scholarships and financial aid just for moms.


You shouldn't get an abortion for anyone else, as no one else has to live with that choice but you. It's easy enough for someone to tell someone else to do something, but they wont have bad feelings about it later. Since you don't want to have an abortion, if you did because your mom and the possible father want you too...I am sure you will regret it for the rest of your life. I am not against abortions if someone wants to do them...That's their own personal decision...But making such a huge decision for someone else never works out well.


I am very happy to hear you say that you want to put that man who took advantage of you to go to jail. If you can put him there and are willing to do it your very brave!


Anyways if you want to know a bit about me my name is kim, I am 18 and 35 weeks pregnant...I was 17 when I found out...So I have some idea about what you are going through! I was terrified to tell my mom...My boyfriend said that he was happy...But his actions over the month have proved otherwise and we recently broke up for good (we had been on and off for months).


Anyways if you want to know anything else just let me know :d take care.



Kimmie

Listen hon, don't ever get an abortion for anyone else. It's your body, your life, and your baby, and you decide what to do with it. Just remember how huge of a responsibility caring for a child is. And kids are very expensive - will you and the father both be able to provide for it and give it a good life? Have you told your mom that you want to keep it, and if so, what did she say?

It's totally understandable that you don't want to stress your dad out - I know that fathers can be very protective of their daughters. He'll be upset, i'm sure, but if you intend to keep the child, he needs to know. And so what if he thinks you're a screw-up? All humans make mistakes - it's their nature. Your father can't admit truthfully that he has never once made a mistake in his life - if he did, he would be telling a lovely lie because not one damn person on this planet is perfect. He'll be mad, but he'll get over it. Perhaps your mom can break it to him..I don't know.

You can still go to school and take your normal classes all through pregnancy, but it will just be a matter of how well you will be able to handle all the crap people will say about you.

Hey honey. I hope things get better. I know how hard it can be to tell your parents. I had my first daughter at 16. I have graduated from high school,i am married, we have our own house, and I am in college. And people always tries to tell me I could not do that with a child. I will admit it is hard but when I look at her I know its all worth it. I know how you feel about being taking advantage of I had a similar inncindent a while back so if you need to talk about that or anything you can always pm me on here. Hope things are getting better. Jesse87

Hey I am 16 years old and I am now 19 weeks pregnant I will be 17 before I have my baby but I was in the same situation I also want my ph.D and I am still going to no matter what. Abortion is not the way to go. You will regret it.You will start to think about how would it look. How would it fell. Dont listen to anyone follow your heart. A life is something that is so rewarding it is not a curse it is actually a gift and when you actually feel and hear your baby for the first time trust me you will not regret it. Let me tell you something I had 2 abortions and I thought I would never had kids again but I look ,god blessed me with one then I am not going to ruin this one. The other 2 I regret to the fullest but you never know what can happen if you have a abortion. But I am telling you it will be hard to forgive yourself. Just think about it the baby didnt do anything to anyone just being formed. I want to send you a email please provide me with your email address so I can send it to you. Listen if you are scared your mom is going kick you out if you don't get the abortion please be sure that you know that your mom cannot throw you out. She will go to jail for leaving of her child you still a minor. Go with your heart