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Q: Future Problems
asked by: kiko1981 on August 11th, 2003
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My girlfriend has type 1 diabetes. She was diagnosed at 16 and has been having to take 2-3 shots a day ever since. Shes pretty good with keeping her sugar on a normal level but heres the thing. She drinks diet drinks of course, but her food that she eats, you would never know she was diabetic! She normally eats a pretty healthy breakfast, but during the day she eats candy, eats whatever she wants for lunch & supper and just about always get deserts and always eats them. I have several relatives with type 1, and they may get a sugar free pie, or they really watch they eat but not her! She will stop by the grocery store and by snicker bars, just stuff like that. And whenever I mention that she needs to eat healthier to her she always says she will be fine just as long as she takes a little more insulin than normal. Another thing is she never exercises which I heard was something she needs to do to. Anyways, by her eating like this of rso long, my question is can it affect her health in the future?? Because she is wanting to get married, & if we do I want her to be healthy. Im really concerned and need some advice on what to tell her. Thanks a lot
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Libby
replied on August 29th, 2003
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Unfortunately, eating whatever you want is something that's hard to control, and she may not see the damage she is causing it right now, but she will definitely see it later!

It's a very hard thing to accept that a diabetic just can't eat like everyone else.

It's also very hard to watch someone doing this.
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jauzi
replied on August 29th, 2003
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Hi!

It is not good for your girlfriend to eat whatever she wants. She has to keep a healthy diet, that is made with the help og a dietary doctor. Or her diabetologist.

Tell her that taking too much insulin is not good. It is vital that she tries too keep her blood sugar under control with the help of diet and then with as little insulin as posible. That is because eventually she will need more and more insulin too control her blood sugar level ans slowly body will not react to the insulin if she doen't take care.

I have friends who have dm type 1 and they all are healthy. But they and your girl also have to take care of diet and also of body exercise. It is important that she doesn't become obese, because she will easier control her sugar level if she stayes within her bmi.

I hope you will be able to talk her into taking more care about her diet. If not by yourself, go with her to her doctor and try so. There are manny complications that can occur when blood sugar levels are not controled. Maybe she will listen then.

Godspeed. Jauzi
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Bolman
replied on December 8th, 2003
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First of all I have to say how great it is that you have educated you’re self and you are worried about her! I was much like you’re girlfriend and in some ways still am. It is a hard cycle to break. Doctors do tell you (at least if you are on the pump) that once a while a small piece of cake is ok. I assume that you’re girlfriend is like me and skipped over the two key words....."sometimes and small". It is a hard subject to confront someone on, but as others have said this is a dangerous thing. I really don't know how you could bring this up to her without her feeling attacked. Again, I am speaking from experience. No one likes to be told what to do. I wish you and you’re girlfriend the best of luck, and with a guy that cares so much for her I am sure things will turn out fine. But she needs to take control of her diabetes. Kelly
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