I am very much worried to get infected with hiv from a hand job (massage of my penis by a hand) at a massage place. I know if the hand of the massager doesnot have broken skin, this is in no mean to be worried, but after the ejeculation, I noticed that the palm of the massager was full of dark spot. I suspect it was from leision when she performed hand job for other people in the past. I don't know if she is a hiv positive and if the leision has been healed or not. Assuming she is hiv positive and there was broken skin in her palm, there will be some small quantity of blood coming out with inflammation fluid and then it will mix with the massage oil to flow into my penis to get me infected with hiv. This is the scenario making me fear to death. Does anyone know how risk this is? Is the blood or inflammation fluid has much higher virus concentration than virginal fluid? Does this action of massage (with leision on palm) have higher risk than unprotected sexual intercourse?
You can be sure that you did not get hiv this way. Hiv cannot be transmitted through a handjob. If there was no actaul fresh blood present, there is no live hiv to infect. Do not worry, this doesn't warrant testing.
Thank you for your response. But how can I assume there is no fresh blood on her palm. If she has a leision which is not healed, there must be some small quantity of blood coming out from the brocken skin. That is the main reason I am scared to death. Sinct the penis is pointed up, it is easy for the oil (mixed with the inflamation fluid) to flow down into my penis. Thanks agian.
Oil would destroy the virus, because it is extremely fragile. I suggest you visit the website aidsmeds.Com, and post a question in the 'fears' forum. They will give you a more detailed, scientific reason why you are not at risk. You will also get a response within minutes because there are always experts online.