I'll make this short married almost 2 years first time I split..Baby was one month old..He had hit me while I was pregnant.. I always hit him first.. Always told me there was something wrong with me and when I was pregnant it got worse. I never believed him thought he was crazy and trying to control me..We got back together got pregnant again and I was afraid that what happened the 1st time would happen again..He was afraid I was gonna leave again made me promise to go get on some meds and at least see a therapist...I laugh..We have huge explosin he takes oldest child and leaves w/ him after one of his episodes.. Ifreak..We work it out my fam comes to our house to check on me ..He freaks this time both fams get into it we separate I get protective order ( dad made me) see laywer who files for divoirce again..Now we both have realized we are bp I go to therapy he starts next week.. Wanna work it out.. Has this happened to anyone else or are we just 2 fools....