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I really dont think age should be an object in relationships, but that is my opinion. I, myself, am dating a 25 year old and I am only 18. I told my parents about it and they are fine with it, as long as i'm not having sex (little do they know...Haha). Anyway, if mr x really like miss x, he should go for it. There is nothing wrong with liking someone older/younger. If there is a spark you shouldnt deny it. But if his intentions lie mainly for sex, I wouldnt get into it. Good luck.

I work with a woman who has a husband that is 15 years older than her. Age means nothing, they've been together for decades (she's pretty old), and i'm 19 dating a 25 year old.

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Well that's good they've come to a decision. I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 23...I'll be 17 soon. The 6 year difference is not even noticeable to us because we're the same maturity and all of that however I know hes had more life experiences and worries about me changing. Miss x still has a lot of life to live and she can't let mr x interfere with that.

I, too would have to agree that age isn't a determing factor in true love, however, when the younger party is still of 'school-age' it can prove to be a difficult situation. The two parties need to sit down and really examine the situation. Is the younger party, miss x, as you call her, truely old enough and mature enough to handle a relationship of this magnitude. And for mr. X, is he ready to handle the aspects of her life of which she has yet to encounter. Such as learning who she is, finishing school, and experiencing life in general. The 14 year old age difference doesn't bother me, however, when the younger party is still considered a minor, yes I do believe it is a problem.

I myself am dating a 38 yr old, and i'm only 23....But that's the difference. I'm 23 with two children, a fulltime job and a college degree. I've already experience that 'wild stage' perse, and i've matured in the relationship catagory.

If he's able to grow with her, and vice versa, then maybe it can work. If not, then he needs to give her space to learn and grow and she needs to focus her attention on things that are more important for a 16 year old, and worry about love later. Believe me, you have your whole life to love. But you have to know how to love, and how to love yourself in return.

I agree.So much can happen in the time they could have dated that if they did date now,they might just end up breaking it off b/c she needs to experience things

I am 33 and my new bride 23, we have been together for nearly 3 years, married last year and make each other happy; that's all that counts.

I also agree with the decission mr x made...Age gaps are seen as normal these days I am 23 and my boyfriend is 33, however the fact that miss x is only 16 changes things a little!

I look younger than 23 and he looks a little older than he is...Everywhere we go we get funny dissaproving looks...And thats from strangers!! So waiting until she is atleast 18 would be a good idea...