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Q: How Do I Please Her
asked by: mr_whygirls on February 2nd, 2006
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Hi ladies,

i need advice. I have problem of having sex and cum before my gf cum’s. If I pump her slowly then I can kind of last long(i might afred she wouldn't be enjoying). However i’ve wanted to please her and make her cum while i’m on the top (let her completely relax). But whenever I pump her fast then i’ll cum (ejaculate) before she cum’s.

Any ladies/wife’s advice? Please.

Anyway, i’ve heard about woman ejaculate too. Is that possible I can do that to my gf too. If yes, please advice me on how to make her ejaculate. Or have any one of you experience this? And would you mind describe how it feels and when she about to ejaculate and what I should I do when she’s almost there.

Thank you all.

Have a nice day.
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not perfect
replied on February 3rd, 2006
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Well, if you want her to be pleased.. One thing you can do is this.

When you feel like you're getting closer to coming, pull out. Start pleasing her. Rub, kiss, tease places. Spend time on her. It'll help her get worked up which results in her coming. A lot of women it takes over 20 minutes of just foreplay before she is even close to coming. Everything has to be arroused for full pleasure to set it. Also, knowing the feeling of when you are close will help you hold back from coming so quick.

When you go back in, go slow, try different positions. Or even let her be on top so she can control her orgasm herself. If you have to, when she's on top and you feel like you're going to come.. Put some glow stars on the ceiling and count them lol (seriously though, my bf did that and it worked). It'll help distract you which in return, you'll have longer sex. As for what to do when she's almost there.. Keep up the same thing you're doing. If you change it up real quick, she could lose her orgasm.

And remember to wear a condom. =)
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Melissa_20
replied on February 6th, 2006
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Think about something that does not turn you on and you will last longer. If she is on top and you rub her clit with your thumb it might be easier for her to have an orgasm!Hope I helped!
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Granps
replied on February 7th, 2006
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How Do I Please Her
I concentrate on her facial expressions and boby languge. If I cum before her, i'll go down on her and finger her "g" spot while sucking her clit. That gives her one hell of a big wet climax.
She loves for me to recycle........ :wink:
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