Theres pre-cum that could get you pregnant...So unless ur on b/c its not okay---you can still get pregnant.

Ok thanks cuz I told him no and he was like please and begging and I said no I said the last thing I want is a kid at 14.

Yeah, that is true I agree, definatly don't do it if your not on bc at least, but also once he feels it "skin to skin" trust me it will be very hard to get him to wear condoms again, my bf hates wearing them because he says he cant really feel it, so now we just take our chances, I am on bc though, but you mise well just keep the condom on, cause if he feels it the other way, he wont ever be "as" satisfied as he would with not wearing one. And hey you can't miss what you don't know :wink:

Don't even think about it. Of course you can get pregnant that way. First off, it would be very easy for him to cum within 5 minutes. Second, pre-cum is not a myth.

It's not him that is going to have to bear the burden if you get pregnant, and it doesn't sound like he's really aware of the implications. Remember that condoms are not the best means of contraception on their own.

Yeah condoms and birth control would be really good to do if you can, which you should be able to. Don't be afraid to get put on bc, if you dont want your parents to know go to plannedparenthood, they can give you like a years supply at one time, for free, and without parents consent, thats what I did, and it was really easy, and they are very nice. Let me know if you need help with contacting them, or anything at all, just message me. Good luck : )

I told him no and he said that respects my decision and I was telling him that it's possible to get pregnant from doing that and he was like well I did before and I don't have any kids. I was like are you sure about that and he was like yeah so I started thinkin then I told him no i'm not taking any chances. I never thought about the fact that maybe the girl that he did that with was on some kind of contraceptive. :?

Hopefully she was, but see I don't use condoms either, I am on birth control, I know most people would still use condoms, but me and my bf just enjoy it better without, but we are well aware that bc isnt 100% effective, so we do take our chances with that, been over a year on bc with no condoms, and so far we're okay, but that doesnt mean its not possible! So yeah, wether or not your using condoms, I think you should get on birth control, cause if for some reason that rubber snaps one night, your going to be real happy knowing you have that bc to back you up :wink: