Joined: 20 Oct 2005 Posts: 34 Location: lake placid, florida
Is That Ok? Posted: 02-01-06 19:56pm
My boyfriend want to have sex with out a
condom for the first five minutes I don't
think he can cum in five minutes but I
still told him no would it be ok if we did
he said he would put on a condom after the
five minutes was up but he said he wanted
to feel me skin to skin is this ok? :?:
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Surrender
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Nov 2005 Posts: 128 Location: canada
Posted: 02-01-06 20:03pm
Theres pre-cum that could get you
pregnant...So unless ur on b/c its not
okay---you can still get pregnant.
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chubbycheeks
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Oct 2005 Posts: 34 Location: lake placid, florida
Posted: 02-01-06 20:05pm
Ok thanks cuz I told him no and he was
like please and begging and I said no I
said the last thing I want is a kid at 14.
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MissShortie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 146
Posted: 02-04-06 16:40pm
Yeah, that is true I agree, definatly
don't do it if your not on bc at least,
but also once he feels it "skin to skin"
trust me it will be very hard to get him
to wear condoms again, my bf hates wearing
them because he says he cant really feel
it, so now we just take our chances, I am
on bc though, but you mise well just keep
the condom on, cause if he feels it the
other way, he wont ever be "as" satisfied
as he would with not wearing one. And hey
you can't miss what you don't know :wink:
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oopoopoop
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Posted: 02-04-06 17:13pm
Don't even think about it. Of course you
can get pregnant that way. First off, it
would be very easy for him to cum within 5
minutes. Second, pre-cum is not a myth.
It's not him that is going to have to bear
the burden if you get pregnant, and it
doesn't sound like he's really aware of
the implications. Remember that condoms
are not the best means of contraception on
their own.
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MissShortie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 146
Posted: 02-04-06 19:55pm
Yeah condoms and birth control would be
really good to do if you can, which you
should be able to. Don't be afraid to get
put on bc, if you dont want your parents
to know go to plannedparenthood, they can
give you like a years supply at one time,
for free, and without parents consent,
thats what I did, and it was really easy,
and they are very nice. Let me know if
you need help with contacting them, or
anything at all, just message me. Good
luck : )
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chubbycheeks
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Oct 2005 Posts: 34 Location: lake placid, florida
Posted: 02-10-06 11:09am
I told him no and he said that respects my
decision and I was telling him that it's
possible to get pregnant from doing that
and he was like well I did before and I
don't have any kids. I was like are you
sure about that and he was like yeah so I
started thinkin then I told him no i'm not
taking any chances. I never thought about
the fact that maybe the girl that he did
that with was on some kind of
contraceptive. :?
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MissShortie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 146
Posted: 02-10-06 16:01pm
Hopefully she was, but see I don't use
condoms either, I am on birth control, I
know most people would still use condoms,
but me and my bf just enjoy it better
without, but we are well aware that bc
isnt 100% effective, so we do take our
chances with that, been over a year on bc
with no condoms, and so far we're okay,
but that doesnt mean its not possible! So
yeah, wether or not your using condoms, I
think you should get on birth control,
cause if for some reason that rubber snaps
one night, your going to be real happy
knowing you have that bc to back you up
:wink:
