I've been struggling with my ed and am working on getting better. I've been dating a trainer who I met at my gym and he is wonderful except for one thing hes too much like me body obessed wise. He is currently using steriods to achieve the "ideal body" I didnt learn this until further into the relationship. With my body issues and laxitive addiction i'm not so sure if this is healthy. Two people completely obessed with thier bodies could be a bad thing. I'm not sure b/c as a person hes amazing but I need to do whats best for me and fighting my ed....Please give some advice