Ok..... let's stay off the abortion and judging others thing cause that's not what this thread is about. *I'm not saying I'm for it or against it, it's just not helping with the initial poster's question*

Anywho, if you are having cramps after sex, it could be due to a uterian or ovarian cyst.
Personally, I got pregnant a few weeks after marriage and we didn't know we were pregnant. I was late but no other symptoms.
With our second child, I had an ovarian cyst rupture and ended up in the hospital. There was nothing they could do but diagnose. I had cramping and bleeding (just some spotting) that morning but the cramping got worse so my midwife sent me to the hospital. They did an ultrasound and said I had a cyst that had ruptured.
At my follow-up the next day with my midwife, she took some blood just to double check that I was or wasn't pregnant. A week later she took more blood to compare the hormone levels. They had shot up so high she had no doubt I was pregnant.
Basically, I had an egg implant at or about the same time I had a cyst rupture. Healthy pregnancy. My second is now 14 months old.
So, long story short. Implantation cramping doesn't happen every time with someone who's had it. It might, but it doesn't mean that everyone will be that way.
It could be a cyst.
Get it checked out either way. If you get a negative on the urine test but still think you might be pregnant, go get a blood test done. You'll have to wait a few days to get another test to compare it to but sometimes that's what it takes.
For those wanting to be pregnant, God's blessings. For those not wanting to be pregnant, God's blessing to you too.

I thought that the main purpose of this site was to provide advice based on the personal experiences of caring women. Most of what I have read has confirmed this assumption. Don't judge people who are not in your circumstances and remember some of those people are here because they can't talk to anyone else. Criticizing them may make them feel even more isolated. Think before judging then posting that judgement.

AnMartin,

Not quite sure what you mean, but if your boyfriend doesnt cum in you then you should be preotected against pregnancy apart from if there is pre-cum. If your still worried take another test to put your mind at rest, i think its easy to see the signs when its playing on your mind. Trust me i am a psychologist! LOL

And as for all this talk on abortion there is absolutely no reason in discussin such a controversial topic as we all have different views and no body should try and make someone else feel bad for the decisions they make!!!!

me and my boyfriend have been having unprotected sex for the past three weeks, i started the pill but on the second day we had unprotected sex, he never pulls out anymore, and i've been cramping like crazy the past two days we had sex, i'm really worried i'm pregnant, i mean, it's fine with my family, but he's muslim and his family would kick him out, that's my concern. not about me being pregnant, but if i am, it's for his sake, because i know how his family is, and his dad doesn't even FULLY know about me, because he's not allowed to date until he's 19, ughh, i'm soooo worriedddddd.

oh and my breasts have been growing, they've been inso much pain for the past two weeks.

It has been a week since I had sex and it was protected but the condom broke and cum got all over my leg and such. I am having cramping, headaches, loss of appetite and just had light spotting. Am I prego or could it be something else?

you could just buy another pregnancy test...thats what happened with me...i had those same symptoms and i was pregnant